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19. But lest
any should think that of two works, the good and the better, the
rewards will be equal, on this account it was necessary to treat
against those, who have so interpreted that saying of the Apostle,
“But I think that this is good by reason of the present
necessity,”20562056 as to say
that virginity is of use not in order to the kingdom of heaven, but
in order to this present time: as though in that eternal life,
they, who had chosen this better part, would have nothing more than
the rest of men. And in this discussion when we came to that saying
of the same Apostle, “But such shall have tribulation of the
flesh, but I spare you;”20572057 we fell in with other disputants,
who so far from making marriage equal to perpetual virginity,
altogether condemned it. For whereas both are errors, either to
equal marriage to holy virginity, or to condemn it: by fleeing from
one another to excess, these two errors come into open collision,
in that they have been unwilling to hold the mean of truth:
whereby, both by sure reason and authority of holy Scriptures, we
both discover that marriage is not a sin, and yet equal it not to
the good either of virginal or even of widowed chastity. Some
forsooth by aiming at virginity, have thought marriage hateful even
as adultery: but others, by defending marriage, would have the
excellence of perpetual continence to deserve nothing more than
married chastity; as though either the good of Susanna be the
lowering of Mary: or the greater good of Mary ought to be the
condemnation of Susanna.