16. Yet he added, “But such
shall have tribulation of the flesh, but I spare you:”20532053 in this
manner exhorting unto virginity, and continual continence, so as
some little to alarm also from marriage, with all modesty, not as
from a matter evil and unlawful, but as from one burdensome and
troublesome. For it is one thing to incur dishonor of the flesh,
and another to have tribulation of the flesh: the 422one is
matter of crime to do, the other of labor to suffer, which for the
most part men refuse not even for the most honorable duties. But
for the having of marriage, now at this time, wherein there is no
service done unto Christ about to come through descent of flesh by
the begetting of the family itself, to take upon one to bear that
tribulation of the flesh, which the Apostle foretells to such as
shall be married, would be extremely foolish, did not incontinent
persons fear, lest, through the temptation of Satan, they should
fall into damnable sins. But whereas he says that he spares them,
who he saith will have tribulation of the flesh, there suggests
itself to me in the mean while no sounder interpretation, than that
he was unwilling to open, and unfold in words, this self-same
tribulation of the flesh which he fore-announced to those who
choose marriage, in suspicions of jealousy of married life, in the
begetting and nurture of children, in fears and sorrows of
childlessness. For how very few, after they have bound themselves
with the bonds of marriage, are not drawn and driven to and fro by
these feelings? And this we ought not to exaggerate, lest we spare
not the very persons, who the Apostle thought were to be
spared.