DIRECTION XI.—SECOND
GENERAL PART.
[How to perform the duty commanded—a directory for prayer.]
‘Praying always with
all prayer and supplication,’ &c. (Eph. 6:18).
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aving despatched the
duty of prayer in general, we now come to give an account of the several
branches in the exhortation; which together make up an excellent directory to the Christian for his
better performing of this duty.
Indeed, the apostle here not only teacheth the Christian how to pray,
but the minister how to preach, in that he doth not nakedly tell them what is
their duty—and so leave them to their own skill in the management of it; but
that he may facilitate the duty unto them, he annexeth such directions, and so
rules their copy for them, that they shall not easily miscarry in the
performance thereof. That preacher
that presseth a duty—though with never so much zeal—but doth not chalk out the
way how it is to be done, is like one that brings a man to a door that is
locked, and bids him go into the house; but gives him no key to open it. Or, that sends a company to sea, but
lends them no chart by which they should steer their course. But to come to the directions. They are six. First.
The time for prayer—‘praying always.’ Second. The kinds or sorts of prayer—‘with
all prayer and supplication.’ Third. The inward principle
of prayer from which it may flow—‘in the Spirit.’ Fourth.
The guard to be set about the duty of prayer—‘watching thereunto.’
Fifth. The unwearied
constancy to be exercised in the duty—‘with all perseverance.’ Sixth.
The comprehensiveness of the duty or persons for whom we are to pray—‘for
all saints.’
We
shall begin with the first.
Division First.—The Time for Prayer.
‘Praying
always.’
We
shall begin with the first direction, which points to the time of performing
the duty of prayer —‘always.’
This word ‘always’ hath a threefold importance. First.
To pray ‘always’ is as much as if he had said, ‘pray in everything,’
according to that of the same apostle in another epistle—‘In every thing by
prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto
God.’ Second. To pray ‘always’ may import as much as to pray in
all conditions. Third. To pray ‘always’ is to pray
daily.
[Threefold import of the expression
‘praying always.’]
First. To pray always is to pray in everything. Prayer is a
catholic duty, with which, like a girdle, we are to compass in all our
affairs. It is to be as bread and
salt on our table; whatever else we have to our meal, these are not forgot to
be set on: whatever we do, or would have, prayer is necessary, be it small or
great. Not as the heathen, who
prayed for some things to their gods, and not for other. If poor, they prayed for riches; if
sick, for health; but as for the good things of the mind, such as patience,
contentment, and other virtues, they thought they could carve well enough in
these for themselves, without troubling their gods to help them. The poet it seems was of this mind—
Hoc satis est orare
Jovem, qui donat et aufert.
Det
vitam, det opes; animum mî æquum ipse parabo—
It is enough,
To
pray of Jove who gives and takes away
That
he may give me life and wealth:
I
will myself prepare the equal soul.
O
how proud is ignorance! let God give the less, and man will do the greater.
But
their folly is not so much to wondered at, as the irreligion of many among
ourselves, who profess to know the true God, and have the light of his word to
direct them what worship to give him.
Some are so brutish in their knowledge, that they hardly pray to God for
anything others for everything.
May be they look upon pardon of sin, and salvation of their souls —as
fruit on the top branches of a tree—out of the reach of their own arm, and
therefore now and then put up some slighty prayers to God for them. But as for temporals, which seem to
hang lower, they think they can pluck them by their own industry, without
setting up the ladder of prayer to come at them. They that should see some—how
busy they are in laying their plots, and how seldom in prayer—could not but
think they expected their safety from their own policy, and not God’s
providence. Or, should they
observe how hard they work in their shop, and how seldom and lazy they are at
prayer for God’s blessing on their labour in their closet, they must conclude
these men promise themselves their estates more from their own labour than the
divine bounty.
In
a word, it is some great occasion that must bring them upon their knees before
God in prayer. May be, when they have an extraordinary enterprise in hand,
wherein they look for strong opposition or great difficulty, in such a case God
shall have them knocking at his door—for now they are at their wits’ end and
know not how to turn them; but the more ordinary and common actions of their
lives they think they can please their master at their pleasures, and so pass
by God’s door without bespeaking his presence or assistance. Thus, one runs into his shop, and
another into the field, and takes no notice that God is concerned in their
employments. If to take a long
journey by the sea or land, where eminent dangers and hazards present
themselves unto their thoughts, then God hath their company; but if to stay at
home, or walk to and fro in their ordinary employments, they bespeak not the
providential wing of God to overshadow them. This is not to ‘pray always.’ If thou wilt, therefore, be a Christian, do not thus part
stakes with God, committing the greater transactions of thy life to him, and
trusting thyself with the less: but ‘acknowledge God in all thy ways, and lean
not to thine own understanding’ in any.
By this thou shalt give him the glory of his universal providence, with
which he encircles all his creatures and all their actions. As nothing is too great to be above his
power, so nothing is too little to be beneath his care. He is the God of the valleys as well as
of the mountains. The sparrow on
the hedge and the hair on our head are cared for by him; and this is no more
derogatory to his glorious majesty than it was to make them at first. Nay, thou shalt, by this, not only give
God his glory, but secure thyself, for there is no passage in thy whole life so
minute and inconsiderable, which—if God should withdraw his care and
providence—might not be an occasion of a sin or danger to thee. And that which exposeth thee to these
calls upon thee to engage God for thy defence.
First. The least passage in thy life may prove
an occasion of sin to thee. At
what a little wicket, many times, a great sin enters, we daily see. David’s eye did but casually light on
Bathsheba, and the good man’s foot was presently in the devil’s trap. Hast thou not then need to pray that
God would set a guard about thy senses wherever thou goest? and to cry with
him, ‘Keep back mine eyes from beholding vanity?’ Dinah went but to give her neighbours, ‘the daughters of the
land,’ a visit—which was but an ordinary civility—and we may imagine that she
little thought, when she went out, of playing the strumpet before she came
home; yet, alas! we read how she was deflowered! What need then hast thou, before thou goest forth, to charge
God with the keeping of thee, that so thou mayest be in his fear from morning
till night!
Second. No passage of thy life so small wherein
thou mayest not fall into some great danger. How many have been choked with their food at their own
table?—received their deadly wound by a beam from their own house? Knowest thou what will be the end of
any action when thou beginnest it?
Joseph was sent by his father to see his brethren in the field, and
neither of them thought of a longer journey; yet this proved the sad occasion
of his captivity in a strange land. Job’s servants were destroyed with
lightning from heaven when they were abroad about their master’s
business. Where canst thou be safe
if heaven’s eye be not on thee? A
slip of thy foot as thou walkest, or a trip of thy horse as thou ridest, may
break thy bones, yea thy neck. O
what need, then, of a God to make thy path plain before thee! It is he that ‘preserveth man and
beast;’ and canst thou have faith to expect his protection when thou hast not a
heart to bespeak it in thy humble prayers at his hand? What reason hath God to care for thy
safety, who carest no more for his honour?
Second. To pray always may import as much as to pray in all
conditions; that is, in prosperity as well as in adversity. So Calvin takes it: omni tempore
perinde valet, atque tam prosperis quâm adversis—it holds at all times
equally, and as much in prosperity as in adversity. Indeed, when God doth afflict, he puts an especial season
for prayer into our hands; but when he enlargeth our state, he doth not
discharge us of the duty, as if we might then lay it aside, as the traveller
doth his cloak when the weather is warm.
Prayer is not a winter garment.
It is then to be warn indeed; but not to be left off in the summer of
prosperity. If you would find
some at prayer you must stay till it thunders and lightens; not go to them except
it be in a storm or tempest. These
are like some birds that are never heard to cry or make a noise but in or
against foul weather. This is not
to pray always; not to serve God, but to serve ourselves of God; to visit God,
not as a friend for love of his company, but as a mere beggar for relief of our
present necessity; using prayer as that pope is said to have used preaching,
for a net to compass in some mercy we want, and when the fish is got then to
throw away the duty. Well, Christian, take heed of this; thou hast arguments enough to keep this duty
always on its wheels, let thy condition be what it will.
[Why we should pray in all conditions.]
First. Pray in prosperity, that thou mayest
speed when thou prayest in adversity.
Own God now, that he may acknowledge thee then. Shall that friend be welcome to us that
never gives us a visit but when he comes to borrow? This is a right beggar’s trick, but not a friend’s part.
Second. Pray in prosperity, to clear thyself
that thou didst not pray in hypocrisy when thou wert afflicted. One prayer now will be a better
evidence for thy sincerity than a whole bundle of duties performed in
adversity. Colours are better
discerned and distinguished by daylight than by the candle in the night. I am sure the truth and plainness of
our hearts in duty will be best discovered in prosperity. In affliction, even gracious souls
have scruples upon their spirits that they seek themselves. Smart and pain, they fear, makes them
cry till they remember that their acquaintance with God did not begin in their
affliction, but that they took delight in his company before these straits
drove them to him.
Third. Pray in prosperity, that thou mayest
not be ensnared by thy prosperity.
Ephraim and Manasseh were brethren, and so are plenty and forgetfulness
—the signification of their names.
Prosperity is no friend to the memory; therefore we are cautioned so
much to beware when we are full, lest then we forget God: magnus vir est cui
præsens fælicitas si arrisit non irrisit (Bern.)—he
is a holy man indeed whose present prosperity doth not mock and abuse him when
it smiles most pleasingly on him.
O how hard it is to be pleased with it and not be ensnared by it!
‘Wine,’ Solomon saith, ‘is a mocker;’ it soon puts him that is too bold with it
to shame. Prosperity doth the
same. A little of it makes us
drunk, and then we know not what we do.
This hath proved often an hour of temptation to the best of men. You shall find in Scripture the saints
have got their saddest falls on the evenest ground. Noah, who had seen the whole world drowned in water, no
sooner was he almost come to safe shore but himself is drowned in wine. David’s
heart was fixed in the wilderness; but his wanton eye rouled and wandered when
upon the terrace of his palace.
Health, honour, riches, and pleasures, with the rest of this world’s
enjoyments, they are like luscious wine. We cannot drink little of them, they
are so sweet to our carnal palate; and we cannot bear much of them, because
they are strong and heady, fuming up in pride and carnal confidence. Now prayer
is an excellent preservative against the evil of this state.
1.
As it spiritualizes our joy into thankfulness. It is carnal joy that is dreggy, and therefore soon putrefies. Now, as prayer in affliction refines
the Christian’s sorrow by breathing it forth into holy groans to God, whereby
he is kept from sinful complaints of God and murmurings against him, thus here
the Christian, by giving a spiritual vent to his joy in thanksgiving and
praises to his God, is preserved from the degeneracy of carnal joy, that
betrays the soul to many foul sins, if itself be not one. For this purpose it is that the apostle
James cuts out this twofold channel for this double affection to run in: ‘Is
any among you afflicted? let him pray.
Is any merry? let him sing psalms,’ James 5:13. As if he should say, ‘Let the afflicted
soul pray, that he may not murmur. Let the joyous saint sing psalms, that his
joy turns not sensual.’ A carnal
heart can easily be merry and jocund when he prospers; the saint alone is
praiseful. The psalmist, speaking of the mariners delivered from storms at sea,
which threatened their wreck, saith, ‘Then are they glad because they be
quiet,’ Ps.
107:30.
But this they may be and yet not thankful. Wherefore he adds his holy
option, ‘O that men would praise the Lord for his goodness!’
2.
By prayer the soul is led into the acquaintance of higher delights than are
to be found in all his temporal enjoyments, and thereby is taken off from
an inordinate valuation of them, because he knows where better are to be
had. The true reason why men are
puffed up with too high an opinion of worldly felicities is their ignorance of
{the} spiritual.
3.
Prayer is God’s ordinance to sanctify our creature-comforts. Everything is ‘sanctified by the word
of God and prayer,’ I
Tim. 4:5.
Now, this obtained, the Christian may safely drink of these
streams. The unicorn hath now put
in his horn to heal them; Satan shall not have such power to corrupt him in the
use of them as another that bespeaks not God’s blessing on them. There is a vanity and flatulency in
every creature, which, if not corrected by prayer, breeds indigested humours in
him that feeds on it.
Fourth. In thy prosperity, Pray to show thy
dependance on God for what thou enjoyest. Thou holdest all thy mercies in capite—he that gave
thee thy life holds thy soul in life. ‘Thou hidst thy face,’ saith David, ‘and
I was troubled.’ Truly it is time for God to withdraw his hand when thou goest
about to cut off his title. That
enjoyment comes but as a guest which is not entertained by prayer. Solomon tells us of wings that our
temporal mercies have. Now if
anything can clip these and keep them from fleeing away, it is prayer. God would often have destroyed Israel,
but Moses stood in the gap; their mercies were oft upon the wing, but that holy
man’s prayers stayed their flight.
God’s heart would not serve him to come over the back of his prayer and
put that to shame. No; they shall
live. But let them say, Moses’
prayer begged their life. Now, if
the prayer of a holy person could avail for others, and obtain a new lease for
their lives, that were, many of them, none of the best; surely, then, the
prayer of a saint may have great power with God for his own. Long life is promised to him that
honours his earthly father. Prayer
gives our heavenly Father the greatest honour. If, therefore, thou wouldst have thy life, or the life of
any mercy, prolonged, forget not to pay him this tribute. Yea, would you transmit what God hath
blessed you with to your posterity, the best way thou canst take is to lock thy
estate up in God’s hand by prayer.
Whatever will thou makest, God is sure to be thy executor. Man may propose and purpose, but God
disposeth. Engage him, and the
care is taken for thy posterity.
Fifth.
Pray now, that thou mayest outlive the loss of thy prosperity. When prayer cannot prevail to keep a
temporal mercy alive with thee, yet it will have a powerful influence to keep
thy heart alive when that dies. O
it is sad when a man’s estate and comfort are buried in the same grave
together! None will bear the loss
of an enjoyment so patiently as he that was exercised in prayer while he had
it. When Job was in his
flourishing estate, his children alive, and all his other enjoyments, then was
he a great trader with God in this duty.
He ‘sanctified’ his children every day. He did not bless himself in them, but sought the blessing of
God for them; and see how comfortably he bears all: ‘The Lord gave, and the
Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.’ The more David prayed for his child
while alive the fewer tears he shed for it when it was dead.
Third. To pray always is to pray daily. When the Christian keeps a constant
daily exercise of this duty, prayer is not a holiday, but everyday work: ‘Every
day will I bless thee; and I will praise thy name for ever and ever,’ Ps. 145:2. This was typified by ‘the daily
sacrifice,’ called therefore ‘the continual burnt offering,’ Ex. 29:38;
whereby was signified our daily need of seeking mercy at God’s hands through
Christ. When our Lord taught his
disciples to pray, he bade them not to ask bread for a week, no, not for a
morrow, but for the present day: ‘Give us this day our daily bread’—plainly
signifying our duty to seek our bread every day of God. This surely was also the end why God
gave the manna in such a portion as should not stuff their cupboards, and furnish
them with a store for a month or a week, but be a just demensum —measure
and sufficient allowance for a day, that so they might be kept in a daily
dependence on God, and look up to him daily who carried the key of their pantry
for them. And have not we the same
necessities upon us with them? Our
bodies are as weak as theirs, and cannot be preserved without a daily repast.
Do we not depend on him for the bread of the day and the rest of the
night? And he hath too good an
opinion of his soul’s constitution, who thinks it can live or thrive with
yesterday’s meal, without renewing his communion with God to-day. The mother would think her sucking
child not well, if it should forsake the breast a whole day; so mayest thou
conclude thy soul is not right, that can pass a day without craving any
spiritual repast in prayer. If thy
wants be not sufficient to keep the chariot of this duty on its wheels, yet
the sins which thou daily renewest would drive thee every day to confess and
beg pardon for them.
We
are under a law not to let the sun go down upon our wrath against our
brother. And dare we, who every
day deserve God’s wrath, let the sun go down before that controversy is taken
up between God and us? In a word,
every day hath its new mercies.
‘His compassions fail not; they are new every morning,’ Lam. 3:23. These new mercies contract a new debt,
and God hath told us the way of payment, viz. a tribute of praise. Without this, we cannot expect a
sanctified use of them. He is
branded by all for a profane person that eats his meat and gives not
thanks. And it would be thought a
ridiculous excuse, should he say he gave thanks yesterday, and that should
serve for this meal also. We have
more mercies every day to bless God for than what is set on our tables. We wear mercies; we breathe mercies; we
walk upon mercies; our whole life is but a passage from one mercy, to be
entertained by another. As one
cloth is drawn, another is laid for a new feast to be set on. Now, doth God every day anoint our head
with fresh oil, and shall not we crown him with new praises? I will not enter into a discourse how
oft a Christian should in a day pray.
At least it must be twice, i.e. morning and night. Prayer must be the key of the morning
and lock of the night. We show not
ourselves Christians, if we do not open our eyes with prayer when we rise, and
shut them again with the same key when we lie down at night. This answers to the morning and evening
sacrifice in the law, which yet was so commanded as to leave room for those other
free‑will offerings which their zeal might prompt them to. Pray as oft as you please besides, so that
your devotions justle not with the necessary duties of your particular
callings; the oftener the more welcome.
We read of David’s ‘seven times a day.’ But be sure thou dost not retrench and cut God short of thy
stated hours. ‘It is a good
thing,’ saith the psalmist, ‘to give thanks unto the Lord, to shew forth thy
lovingkindness in the morning, and thy faithfulness every night,’ Ps. 92:1, 2. God is alpha and omega. It is fit we should begin and end the
day with his praise, who begins and ends it for us with his mercy.
Well,
Christian, thou seest thy duty plainly laid before thee. As thou wouldst have God prosper thy
labour in the day, and sweeten thy rest in the night, clasp them both together
with thy morning and evening devotions.
He that takes no care to set forth God’s portion of time in the morning,
doth not only rob God of his due, but is a thief to himself all the day after,
by losing the blessing which a faithful prayer might bring from heaven on his
undertakings. And he that closeth
his eyes at night without prayer, lies down before his bed is made. He is like a foolish captain in a
garrison, who betakes himself to his rest before he hath set the watch for the
city’s safeguard. God is his
people’s keeper; but can he expect to be kept by him, that chargeth not the
divine providence with his keeping?
The angels, at his command, pitch their tents about his saints’
dwellings. But as the drum calls the
watch together, so God looks that, by humble prayer, we should beg of him their
ministry and attendance about us.
I shall shut up this discourse with one caution to be observed in your
daily exercise of this duty.
Caution. Beware that thy constant daily
performance of this duty doth not degenerate into a lifeless formality. What we do commonly, we are prone to be
but ordinary and slighty in the doing.
He is a rare Christian that keeps his course in prayer, and yet grows
not customary to pray of mere course.
The power of religion cannot be preserved without an outward form and
order observed in its exercises; and yet very hard it is not to grow formal in
those duties which we are daily conversant with. Many that are very neat and nice when their holiday suit is
on their back, are yet too slovenly in wearing their everyday apparel. Thus, at a fast or on a Sabbath, our
hearts haply are stirred up to some solemnity and spirituality becoming the
duty of prayer, as being awed with the sacredness of the time and extraordinary
weight of the work; but alas! in our everyday duties we are too slighty and
slovenly.
Now,
set thyself, Christian, with all thy might, to keep up the life and vigour of
thy spirit in thy daily approaches to God. Be as careful to set an edge on thy graces before thy
prayer, as on thy stomach before thy meal. Labour to come as hungry to this duty, as to eat thy dinner
and supper. Now no expedient for
this like a holy watch set about thy heart in the whole course of thy
life. He that watcheth his heart
all day, is most likely to find it at hand and in time for prayer at night. Whereas, loose walking breeds lazy
praying. Be oft in the day putting thyself in mind what work waits for thee at
night. Thou art to draw near unto
thy God, and this will make thee afraid of doing anything in the day that will
indispose thee, or make thee fear a chide from thy God, when thou appearest
before him. That of the apostle is
observable: ‘If ye call on the Father, who without respect of persons judgeth
according to every man’s work, pass the time of your sojourning here in fear,’
I Peter
1:17. As if he
had said, ‘Do you mean to pray? then look to the whole course of your walking,
that it be in the fear of God, or else you will have little heart to go about
that work, and as little hope that he will bid you welcome, for he judgeth all
persons that pray, not only by their prayers, but by their works and walking.’
Division Second.—The Kinds of Prayer.
‘With
all prayer and supplication.’
The
second branch in the apostle’s directory for prayer follows, which hath respect
to the kinds of prayer that are to be taken into the Christian’s
exercise. As for the season, he
must ‘pray always;’ so for the kinds of prayer, ‘with all prayer and
supplication.’ Now, there is a
double ‘all’ to be observed, as we shall make clear under two
branches. First. There is all manner of prayer. Second.
There is all matter of prayer.
BRANCH
FIRST.
[‘All prayer’ is
viewed as to
diversity in manner.]
I
shall begin with the first branch mentioned, viz. the modus orandi—the
manner of praying: and that falls under several divisions, and
distinctions. First. Prayer is sudden and ejaculatory,
or composed and fixed. Second. That which is composed, is either
solitary, or social—performed jointly with others. Third. Social
and joint prayer is either private in the family or public in the
church. Fourth. Solitary and social, private or public prayer, are
either ordinary or extraordinary.
[Prayer distinguished
as ejaculatory or composed.]
First Distinction. Prayer is sudden and ejaculatory,
or composed and fixed.
First. Sudden or ejaculatory prayer, which
is nothing else but the lifting up of the soul to God upon a sudden emerged
occasion, with some short but lively expression of our desires to him. Sometimes it is vocal, sometimes only
groaned forth from the secret workings of a secret heart. These darts may be shot to heaven
without using the tongue’s bow. Such a kind of prayer that of Moses was, which
rang so loud in God's ear that he asked Moses, ‘Wherefore criest thou unto me?’
Ex. 14:15;
whereas, we read of never a word that he spake. It was no season for Moses then to retire and betake himself
to the duty of prayer, in a composed and settled way, as at other times he was
wont, for the enemy was at his back, and the people of Israel flocking about
him, murmuring and charging him with the guilt of blood, in that he had enticed
them out of Egypt to fall into such a trap, wherein they expected no other than
to lose their lives, either in the sea or by the Egyptians. This no doubt made Moses presently
despatch his desires to heaven by the hand of some short ejaculation, the
surest and quickest post in the world, which brought him back a speedy and
happy return, as you may see, ver. 16.
Thus,
Nehemiah also, upon the occasion of the king’s speech to him, interposeth a
short prayer to God between the king’s question and his answer to it: ‘Then the
king said unto me, For what dost thou make request? So I prayed to the God of heaven, and I said unto the king,’
&c., Neh.
2:4. So soon
was this holy man at heaven and back again—even in a trice —without any breach
of manners in making the king wait for his answer. Sometimes you have the saints forming their desires into a
few smart and passionate words, which fly with a holy force from their lips to
heaven, as an arrow out of a bow.
Thus old Jacob, when he was despatching his sons back again to Egypt,
and had with the greatest prudence provided for their journey, by furnishing
them with double money, and a choice present in their hand to appease the
governor of the land, that now he might engage heaven on their side, he
breathes forth into this ejaculatory prayer, ‘God Almighty give you mercy
before the man, that he may send away your other brother, and Benjamin,’ Gen. 43:14. And David, when intelligence came that
Ahithophel was of Absalom’s council, let fly that dart to heaven, ‘O Lord, I
pray thee, turn the counsel of Ahithophel into foolishness,’ II Sam. 15:31. This kind of praying David might mean
when he saith, ‘Seven times a day do I praise thee,’ Ps. 119:164. Not as if he had seven set hours for
this duty every day, as the Papists would have it, to countenance their seven
canonical hours, but rather a definite number is here put for an
indefinite. And so it amounts to
no more than this—he did very often in a day praise God, his holy heart taking
the hint of every providence to carry him to heaven on this errand of prayer
and praise.
Now,
to despatch this kind of prayer, I shall only, first, show why the Christian,
beside his stated hours for prayer, wherein he holds more solemn commerce with
God, should also visit God occasionally, and step into his presence over and
anon—whatever he is about—with these ejaculatory breathings of his heart; for
this is a kind of prayer that needs not interrupt the Christian, nor break any
squares in his other enjoyments.
Is he on a journey? He may
go to heaven in these short sallies of his soul, and make no less speed in his
way for them. Is he in the field
at work? His plough needs not stand still for this. As the meadow is not the worse for what the bee sucks from
its flowers, so neither doth a man’s worldly occasions suffer any loss from that
spiritual improvement which a gracious soul thus makes of them.
[Four reasons why the Christian
should use
ejaculatory prayers.]
Reason
1. The first reason may be taken from God, who, to show his great delight
in his children’s prayers, lets his door stand always wide open, that
whenever we have but a heart, and will be so kind as to step in to visit
him with a prayer at what hour of the day or night soever it be, we shall be
welcome. Nay, he doth not only give us a liberty, but he lays it as a law upon
us, to let him hear from us as oft as possibly we can, and therefore commands
us to ‘pray without ceasing,’ I Thes. 5:17, and ‘whatsoever
ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to
God and the Father by him,’ Col. 3:17. What do these and such like places
signify, but that we should take every occasion that his Spirit and providence
bring to our hand to the lifting our hearts up to him in prayer? And an we suppose that a prayer at our
first setting forth in the morning, with never thinking of God any more till we
come to our round for prayer at night again, will pass for a praying
continually? When a father
chargeth his son, that lives abroad, to let him as oft as may be hear from him,
though he doth not expect a long epistle from him by every messenger that comes
that way, yet he looks for some short remembrance of his duty by word of mouth,
and that is accepted, till he hath more leisure to write his full mind. God bids pray continually. Now, he knows we cannot be always on
our knees in the solemn performance of this duty. But, therefore, he expects to hear the oftener from us in
these occasional remembrances of him—hinted to us all along the day by emerging
providences—which the Holy Spirit stands ready as our messenger to convey unto
him.
Reason
2. The second reason may be taken from the excellent use of ejaculatory
prayers in the Christian’s whole course of life.
(1.)
They are of excellent use to be set against those sudden injections of
Satan, which he will be darting into our minds. It were strange if the best of saints should not find the
devil busy with them in this kind.
None so pure whose chastity of mind this foul spirit dares not to assault. And when his temptations have once
coloured our imagination, it is hard wiping them off before they soak so deep
as to leave some malignant tincture on our affections. Now, when any such dart from hell is
shot in at thy window, no such way to wind out of the temptation as to shoot
thy darts to heaven in some holy ejaculation. Our Saviour taught his disciples the use of this weapon:
‘Pray that ye enter not into temptation.’
Now when thou canst not draw out the long sword of a solemn prayer, then
go to the short dagger of ejaculatory prayer; and with this—if in the hand of
faith—thou mayest stab thy enemy to the heart. He that at one short prayer of David could infatuate
Ahithophel, an oracle for policy, can befool the devil himself, and will at thy
prayer of faith. ‘The Lord rebuke
thee, O Satan,’ said Christ. It is
time now for Satan to be gone, when heaven takes the alarm; as when thieves are
about a house to rob it, and they within beat a drum, or give a sudden shriek
to call in help, presently they flee. And if God for thy trial should not come
at first call, to rid thee of these unwelcome guests, yet thy very crying
out—if affectionate and cordial—will clear thee from consenting to their
villainy.
(2.)
They are a sovereign means to allay the Christian’s affections to the world—one
of the worst enemies he hath in the field against him; for it chokes the soul,
thickens the Christian’s spirit, and changes his very complexion. Who but dying men smell of the earth
and carry its colour in their countenance? Grace dieth apace where the heart
savours much of the earth. Now,
prayer, what is it, but the lifting of the soul from earth to heaven? Were we oftener in a day sucking in, as
it were, fresh air and new influences of grace from God, our spirits could not
possibly be so much poisoned with worldly affections. When one was asked,
‘Whether he did not admire the goodly structure of a stately house?’ he answered, ‘No. For,’ saith he, ‘I
have been at Rome, where more magnificent fabrics are to be seen.’ Thus, when Satan presents the world’s
pleasures or treasures to the Christian—that he may inveigle his affections to
dote on them—a gracious soul can say, ‘I have been at heaven; there is not an
hour in the day wherein I enjoy not better than these in communion with my
God.’
Reason
3. Ejaculatory prayers keep the Christian’s heart in a holy disposition
for the more solemn performance of his duty. He that is so heavenly in his earthly employments will be
the less worldly in his heavenly.
It was a sweet speech of a dying saint, ‘That he was going to change his
place but not his company.’ A
Christian that is frequent in these ejaculations, when he goes to pray more
solemnly, he goes not from the world to God, but from God to God—from a
transient view of him to a more fixed; whereas, another discontinues his
acquaintance with God, after his morning visit, and comes not in his company
till called in by his customary performance. O! how hard a business will such a
one find it to pray with a heavenly heart! What you fill the vessel with, you must expect to draw
thence. If water be put in, we
cannot without a miracle think to draw wine. What! art thou all day filling thy
heart with earth —God not in all thy thoughts—and dost thou look to draw heaven
thence at night? If you would have
fire for your evening sacrifice, expect not new from heaven to be dropped, but
labour to keep what is already on thine altar from going out; which thou canst
not better do than by feeding it with this fuel.
Reason
4. Ejaculatory prayers are of excellent use to alleviate any great
affliction that lies heavy upon soul or body. While others sit disconsolate, grinding their souls and
wasting their spirits with their own anxious thoughts; these are his wings with
which he flieth above his troubles, and in an instant shoots his soul to
heaven, out of the din and noise of his afflictions. How can he be long uncomfortable, who, when anything begins
to disquiet him, lets it not lie boking and belking in his mind—as a thorn in
the flesh—but presently gives vent to it, by some heavenly meditation or heart-easing
prayer to God? Those heavenly
tidings which came to Job, one upon the neck of another, it was not possible
for him to have stood under, had his thoughts been employed on no other subject
than his affliction. But, being
able to lift up his heart to God—‘The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away;
blessed be the name of the Lord’—this one devout meditation or ejaculation gave
him incomparable ease. Indeed, in
afflictions that are very sharp and violent, it is no time for long discourses;
the poor creature cannot hold out in a continued duty of prayer, as at another
time. When the fight grows hot,
and the army comes to grapple hand to hand with their enemy, they have not
leisure to charge their great artillery, then their short swords do them most
service. Truly thus it is in this
case. The poor creature, may be, finds his body weak, and his spirit oppressed
with temptations, which Satan pours like so much shot upon him, that all he can
well do is to pray quick and short—now fetch a groan for the pain he feels, and
then shoot a dart to heaven to call God in to his help. And blessed is the man who hath his
quiver full of these arrows. We
see Christ in his agony chose to pray oft, rather than long: ‘If it be
possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not my will, but thine be
done.’ This short ejaculation he
sends to heaven thrice, with some little pause of time between prayer and
prayer. ‘And was heard in that he
feared,’ Heb.
5:7.
USE
OR APPLICATION.
[Reproof to those who
either do not use
ejaculatory prayer at
all, or not rightly.]
Use
First. A reproof to those that
use not this kind of prayer, or do it in a profane manner; or that use
this, but neglect other kinds of prayer.
1.
For reproof of those that are wholly unacquainted with ejaculatory prayer—not
such a dart to be found in all their quiver. Their heart is as a bow bent indeed, and their quiver full
of arrows. But all are shot beside
this mark. The world is their butt;
at this they let fly all their thoughts.
God is so great a stranger with them, that they hardly speak to or think
of him from morning to night, though they travel all day in his company. And is it not strange that God, who is
so near his creature, should be so far from his thoughts? Where canst thou be, or what can thy
eye light upon, that may not bring God to thy remembrance, and give thee a fair
occasion to lift up thy heart to him?
He is present with thee in every place and company. Thou canst use no creature, enjoy no
mercy, feel no affliction, and put thy hand to no work, which will not prompt
thee either to beg his counsel, seek his blessing, crave his protection, or
give him praise for his gracious providence over thee. The very beast thou ridest on, could it
speak—as once Balaam’s ass did—would reprove thy atheism, who goest plodding on
thy way, and takest no notice of him that preservest both man and beast. But God speaks once, yea twice, and brutish
men perceive it not. Well may
Solomon say, ‘The heart of the wicked is of little worth,’ when God is not in
all his thoughts. What can that heart be worth, that is stuffed with that which
is worth naught? at least within a while will be so? for within that moment
wherein these poor wretches die, all their thoughts perish and come to
nothing. Truly, though ye were so
many kings and emperors, yet, if the stock of your thoughts be spent all the
day long upon earthly projects—never flying so high as to lead you into
communion with God—you are but like those vermin that are buried alive in some
stinking dunghill. The food your
souls live upon is low and base, and such must the temper of your souls also
needs be.
O!
how many are there in the world, whose backs are bravely clad with scarlet,
while their souls embrace the dunghill—whose bellies are high fed and
deliciously pampered, but their souls set at coarse fare! The body, which is the beggar, is
mounted on horseback, and the soul, which is the prince, walks on
foot—preferred to no higher employment than to hold her slave’s stirrup—being
made to bestow all his thoughts and care how to provide for that, an allowed
nothing for itself. Yet these must be cried up for the only happy men in the
world! Whereas, some poor
creatures are to be found though their outward port and garb in the world
renders them despicable—who enjoy more of heaven and true comfort, by the frequent
commerce they have with God, as they are at their loom or wheel, in one day,
than the other do in all their lives, for all their pomp and fanciful
felicities. What account will such give to God for the expense of their
thoughts, the first‑born of their souls?
What pity is it that strangers should devour them,—the highest
improvement whereof is to send them in embassies to heaven, and to converse
with God! He who gave man a
countenance erect, to walk—not creep on all four, as some other creatures, with
their back upon heaven and mouth to the earth—never intended his soul should
stoop so below itself, and lick the dust for its food; but rather, that it
should look up to God, and enjoy himself in enjoying communion with him that is
the Father of spirits. If it be so
bad a spectacle to behold a man bowed down through the deformities or infirmities
of his body, as to go like a beast on all four, hands and feet; much more, to
see a soul so crippled with ignorance and sensual affections, that it cannot
look up from the earth where it lies a roveling, to converse with God its
Maker.
2.
It reproves those who do indeed shoot now and then to heaven some of these
darts of ejaculatory prayers, but in so profane a way as makes both God and
gracious men to nauseate them.
Did you never hear a vile wretch interlace his discourse with a strange
medley of oaths and prayers?—rap out an oath, and then send out a vain prayer,
in the midst of his carnal discourse?
‘God forgive us!’ ‘God
bless us!’ ‘God be merciful to us!’ Such forms of speech many have got, and
they come tumbling out when they do not mind what they say. Now, which do you
think is like to get first to heaven—their oaths or their prayers? It is hard to say whether their
swearing or their praying is the worst.
What base and low thoughts have those wretches of the great God, to make
so bold with his holy and reverent name, which should not be thought or spoken
of without fear and trembling!
‘The legs of the lame are not equal, so is a parable in the mouth of
fools;’ that is, it is uncomely. The name of God doth not fit a profane mouth;
the discourse is not equal. One
step in hell and another in heaven is too great a stride at once to be
taken. To shoot one dart at God in
an oath, and another to him in a prayer, what can you make of this but a toying
with that which is sacred? Religion and the eye are too tender to be played
with. Such prayers as these are
shot out of the devil’s bow, and are never to reach heaven, except it be to
bring back a curse for him that put them up.
3.
A reproof to those who content themselves with this kind of prayer. They will now and then cast a transient
glance upon God in a short ejaculation, but never set themselves to seek God in
a more solemn way. And is this
all thou canst afford? No more
than to look in at God’s door, and away presently! Dost thou not think that he expects thou shouldst sometimes
come to stay longer with him in a more settled communion? It is true, these occasional visits,
when joined with the conscientious performance of the other, is an excellent
symptom of a heavenly heart, and speaks grace to be very lively when they are
frequent. As when a man between
his set meals is so hungry that he must have something to stay his stomach, and
yet, when dinner when dinner or supper come, can feed as heartily as if he had
eaten nothing—this shows indeed the man to be healthy and strong. But, if a bit by the by takes away his
stomach, that he can eat little or nothing at his ordinary meal, this is not so
good a sign. Thus here: if a
Christian, between his set and solemn seeking of God morning and night, finds
an inward hunger upon his spirit, so strongly craving communion with God that
he cannot stay till his stated hour for prayer returns, but must ever and anon
be refreshing himself with the beverage of ejaculatory prayer, and then comes
sharp set to duty at his ordinary set time, this speaks grace to be in statu
athletico—strong and thriving; but, on the contrary, it shows a slighty and
naughty spirit to make these an excuse or plea for the neglect of the other.
Thou tastest, sure, little sweetness, and findest little nourishment from these,
or else they would excite thy soul to hunger for further communion with
God. As soon as David opened his
eyes in the morning, his heart was sallying forth to God—‘When I awake I am
still with thee.’ And as he walked
abroad in the daytime, every occasion led him into the presence with God:
‘Seven times a day do I praise thee;’ that is, often—as it is said, The
righteous fall seven times in a day.
But, did these short glances of David's heart steal from the more solemn
performance of his duty? No; we find he had his set seasons also: ‘Evening, and
morning, and at noon, will I pray, and cry aloud,’ Ps. 55:17. Mr. Ainsworth interprets this place of
solemn stated prayer; and it seems to have been the practice of more devout
Jews to devote three seasons in a day for that duty. I can no more believe him to be frequent and spiritual in
ejaculatory prayer who neglects the season of solemn prayer, than I can believe
that he keeps every day in the week a Sabbath who neglects to keep that one
which God hath appointed.
[Exhortation to the
believer’s frequent
use of ejaculatory
prayer.]
Use
Second. To the saints.
Be ye excited to the frequent exercise of this duty of
ejaculatory prayer. I know you are
not altogether strangers to it—if you answer your name and be such as you go
for; but it is a more intimate and familiar acquaintance with this kind of
prayer that I would gladly lead you into.
Such an art it is that, were we but skilful traders in it, we should
find a blessed advance in our spiritual estate and soon have more money in our
purse—grace and comfort, I mean, in our hearts—than now most Christians can
show. We might, by a spiritual
alchemy, turn all we touch into gold, extract heaven out of earth, and make
wings of every creature and providence that meet us to help us in our flight
to God. Our whole life would be—what I have read of a holy man—but one
communion‑day with Christ.
Then neither friends nor foes, joys nor woes, callings nor
recreations—or whatever else we have in this world to do with—should be able to
interrupt our acquaintance with him.
Whereas now, alas! everything interposeth, as an opaque body, to hide
God and heaven from our eye. We
who now walk—like travellers in some bottom or low swamp—with our thoughts of
heaven so overtopped by the world, that we hardly get a sight of that glorious
city to which we are going from morning to night—and thereby lose much of the
pleasure of our journey—should then have it in a manner always before us, as a
joyful prospect in our eye, to solace us in the difficulties of our pilgrimage,
and make us gather up our feet more nimbly in the ways of holiness when we
shall see whither they lead us. We
count them pleasantly situated who live in a climate where the sun is seldom
off their horizon. Truly, none have such a constant light of inward joy and
peace shining upon their souls as those who are familiarly conversant with this
duty. They are in sole positi—placed
in the sun, as is said of the Rhodians; they stand at the best advantage of any
other to have, if not a continual, yet a frequent, intercourse with God, from
whom both the influences of comfort and grace also do all come. And if those trees must needs have the
fairest and sweetest which stand most in the sun, then, surely, they are most
likely to excel others both in comfort and grace who are most with God. Every
little that the bee brings to the hive—as she flies in and out, though she
stays not long on any flower—adds to the stock. Though the soul makes no long stay with God in this kind of
prayer, yet the frequent reiterations thereof conduce much to the increase of
its grace. Light gain, with quick
returns, makes a heavy purse.
Little showers, often following one upon another, plump the corn and
fill the bushels. So do these
short spurts—sallies of the soul to heaven—enrich and increase grace in the
heart exceedingly. Now, if thou
shouldst ask how thou mayest make this kind of ejaculatory prayer more
familiar unto thee, take these few words of counsel:—
[Some helps to ejaculatory prayer.]
1.
Help. Keep thy heart
with all diligence—thy affections, I mean. The very reason why we sally out so seldom toward God in
these occasional prayers is because the weight of our affections poise us
another way. The bowl runs as its
bias inclines, the stream flows as the fountain empties itself. If our affections be carnal, to earth
we go, and God hath little of our company. Adam, it is said, ‘begat a son in his own likeness,’ Gen. 5:3,
and so doth the heart of every man. As is the earthy, such are they also that
are earthy; as is the heavenly, such they also that be heavenly. Labour, therefore, to get and keep thy
heart heavenly; especially look to these three affections—thy love, fear, and
joy.
(1.)
Thy Love. If this fire burn
clear, the more of these sparks will from it mount up to God. Love is a great friend to memory. The adulterer is said to have his ‘eyes
full of the harlot,’ and holy love will be as mindful of God. Such a soul will be often setting God
in its view: ‘I have set the Lord always before me,’ Ps. 16:8. And by often thinking of God the heart
will be enticed into desires after him.
‘The desire of our soul is to thy name, and to the remembrance of thee,’
Isa. 26:8. And see what follows, ‘With my soul have
I desired thee in the night; yea, with my spirit within me will I seek thee
early,’ ver.
9. Love sets
the soul on musing, and musing on praying. Meditation is prayer in bullion, prayer in the ore—soon
melted and run into holy desires.
The laden cloud soon drops into rain, the piece charged soon goes off
when fire is put to it. A
meditating soul is in proximâ potentiâ to prayer. ‘While I was musing the fire burned:
then spake I with my tongue, Lord, make me to know mine end,’ Ps. 39:3, 4. This was an ejaculatory prayer shot
from his soul when in the company of the wicked.
(2.)
Thy Fear. Even wicked men,
thought they be great strangers to prayer, yet we shall hear them knocking at
God’s door in a fright; much more will a holy fear direct the Christian, upon
all occasions, to lift up his heart to God. Art thou in thy calling? Fear a snare therein, and this will excite thee oft in a day
to bespeak counsel of God how to behave thyself therein. Art thou in company? Fear lest thou should st do or receive
hurt, and thou wilt be lifting up thy heart to him that can only keep thee from
both. We cannot have a more
faithful monitor to mind us of this duty than a holy fear. ‘They that feared the Lord thought upon
his name,’ Mal.
3:16. ‘At what
time I am afraid,’ saith David, ‘I will trust in thee.’ Fear makes us think where our safety
lies, and leads us to our refuge.
Had not Noah feared a storm the ark had not been built. Men fear no sin nor danger, and
therefore God hears not of them all the day long: the ungodly world, who walk
with their back upon heaven and look not up to God from morning to night. We may tell the reason—‘The fear of God
is not before their eyes.’
(3.)
Thy joy and delight in God.
O cherish this. As fear
disposeth to pray, so joy to praise.
Now, and not till now, the instrument of thy heart is in tune. One hint
now from the providence of God, and touch from his Spirit, will set such a soul
on work to bless God. Carnal men,
when they are frolic and upon the merry pin, then they have their catches and
songs as they sit in their house or ride on the way: how much more will the
gracious soul, that walks in the sense of God’s love, be often striking up his
harp in holy praises to God?
‘Because thy lovingkindness is better than life, my lips shall praise
thee,’ Ps.
63:3. ‘I will
bless thee while I live,’ ver.
4. And again,
‘My mouth shall praise thee with joyful lips,’ ver. 5. See how he goes over and over again the
same note. Joy can no more be hid
than ointment. As that betrayeth
itself by its hot and sweet perfumes, so doth holy joy make its own report in
the praises it sounds forth to God. It behooves thee therefore, Christian, to
be as chary and choice of thy joy as thou wouldst be of the blood in thy veins;
for in this runs the spirits of praise and thanksgiving. Now, would you nourish your joy? Do it by sucking the promises—those
breasts of consolation. these are
a food of pure juice and strong nourishment; they soon turn into blood—joy and
peace, I mean—and with this a spirit of praise must needs also grow.
2.
Help. Possess thy heart
with strong apprehensions of God’s overruling providence in all thy
enterprises, great or small; that he doth what pleaseth him in heaven and
earth, so that all thy labour and toil in any business is in vain while [until]
this main wheel begins to stir—his providence gives countenance to the
action. O, how would this raise
thy heart up to God, and send thee with many an errand into his presence! Suppose a man was going about some important
business, and had him in his company that alone {which} could help or hinder
the despatch of it; were it not strange that he should travel all day with him
and not apply himself to this person to make him his friend? This is thy very case, Christian. Thou
and all thy affairs are at the absolute disposure of the great God, to bless or
blast thee in every enterprise.
If thou hast not his vote, thy business is stopped in the head. Now, this God is always in thy company,
whether at home or abroad, in thy bed or at thy board. Surely thou didst believe this firmly,
thou wouldst oft in a day turn thyself to him, and beg his good‑will to favour
thy undertaking and facilitate thy business for thee.
3.
Help. Look thou compliest
with the motions of the Holy Spirit.
The Christian shall find him, as his remembrancer to mind him of the
more solemn performance of this duty of prayer, so his monitor, to suggest many
occasional meditations to his thoughts —even amidst worldly employments—as a
hint that now it is a fit time to give God a visit in holy some ejaculation, by
thus setting the door, as it were, open for him into God’s presence. Sometimes he will be recalling a truth
thou hast read or heard, a mercy thou hast received, or a sin thou hast
committed. And what means he by
all these but to do thee a friendly office, that by these—thy affections being
stirred—thou mayest be invited to dart thy soul up to God in some ejaculation
suitable to his motion? Now, take
the hint he gives, and thou shalt have more of his company and help in this
kind. For, as the evil spirit,
where he finds welcome to his wicked suggestions, grows bold to knock oftener
at that door because it is so soon opened to him; so the Holy Spirit is
invited, where his motions are kindly entertained, to be more frequent in these
his approaches; where was thy neglect of them may cause him to withdraw and
leave thee to thy own slothful spirit.
When Christ had thrice made an attempt to take away his drowsy disciples
by calling them up to watch and pray, and they fell to nodding again, truly
then he bids them ‘sleep on.’
[Composed prayer
distinguished as
secret
or social.]
Second Distinction. What we have called composed prayer
may be distinguished as either solitary, or social—performed jointly with
others. It is designated composed,
because the Christian composeth himself more solemnly to the work by setting
some considerable time apart from his other occasions, for his more free and
full communion with God in prayer.
We begin with the first of these.
First.
Secret Prayer. When the
Christian retireth into some secret place, free from all company, and there
pours out his soul into the bosom of God, none being witness to this trade he
drives with heaven but God and himself.
I shall here, 1. Prove this to be a duty incumbent upon us; and, 2. Give
the reasons why.
[Secret prayer a
duty, and the reasons why.]
1.
I shall prove secret or closet prayer to be a duty incumbent upon us. That is it is the Christian’s duty
secretly and solitarily to hold intercourse with God in prayer, I believe will
be granted of more than practise it.
Even those that are strangers to the performance thereof carry in their
own bosom that which will accuse them for their neglect, except by long looking
on the light, and rebelling against the same, their foolish minds be darkened
and have lost all sight and sense of a deity. If any prayer be a duty, then secret prayer needs be one. This is to all the other as the carina
or keel is to the ship—it bears up all the rest. If we look into the practice of Scripture saints, we shall
find them all to have been great dealers with God in this trade of secret
prayer. Abraham had his ‘grove,’
whither he retired to ‘call on the name of the Lord, the everlasting God,’ Gen. 21:33.
Neither was Rebekah a stranger to this duty, who, upon the babes struggling in
her womb, ‘went to inquire of the Lord,’ Gen. 25:22, which, saith
Calvin, was to pray in secret.
Jacob is famous for his wrestling, as it were hand to hand, with God in
the night. Holy David’s life was little else, he ‘gave himself to prayer,’ Ps. 109:4. Allow but some time spent by him for
nature’s refection and the necessary occasions of his public employment—which
yet came in but as a parenthesis—and you will find most of the rest laid out in
meditation and prayer, as appears, Ps. 119. We have Elias at prayer under the
juniper tree, Peter on the leads, Cornelius in a corner of his house; yea, our
blessed Saviour—whose soul could have fasted longest without any inward impair
through the want of this repast—yet none more frequent in it. Early in the morning he is praying
alone, Mark
1:35, and late in the evening, Matt. 14:23. And this was his usual practice, as
may be gathered from Luke 22:39 compared with Luke 21:37. Thus Christ sanctified this duty by his
own example. Yea, we have a sweet
promise to the due performance of it—and God doth not use to promise a reward
for that work which he commandeth us not to do—but ‘when thou prayest, enter
into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is
in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly,’ Matt. 6:6.
Where our Saviour takes it for granted that every child of God will be often
praying to his heavenly Father; and therefore he rather encourageth them in
the work he seeth them about, than commands them to it. ‘I know you cannot live without
prayer.’ Now, when you would give
God a visit, ‘enter into thy closet,’ &c. But why must the Christian maintain this secret intercourse
with God?
2.
I shall give the reasons why secret or closet prayer is incumbent upon us.
(1.)
In regard of God. He hath
an eye to see our secret tears, and an ear to hear our secret groans; therefore
we ought to pour them out to him in secret. It is a piece of gross superstition
to bind this only to place or company: ‘I will,’ saith the apostle, ‘that men
pray every where, lifting up holy hands,’ &c., I Tim. 2:8. God is everywhere to be found, at
church and at home, with our family and our closet; and therefore we are to
pray everywhere. O what a comfort
it is to a gracious soul, that he can never be out of God’s sight or hearing,
wherever he is thrown, and therefore never out of his care! for it is out of
sight out of mind. This comforted
holy David. His friends and kinsmen,
they, alas! were afar off. He
might lie upon his sick-bed, and cry till his heart ached, and not make them
hear. But see how he pacifies
himself in this solitude, ‘Lord, all my desire is before thee; and my groaning
is not hid from thee,’ Ps.
38:9. Little
thought Jacob that he had a son prisoner in Egypt, laden there with irons that
entered into his soul. But he
had a God that was nigh unto him all the time of his distress, and heard the
cry of the poor prisoner, though his earthly father never dreamed of any such
matter.
Great
and rich are the returns which in Scripture we find to be sent from heaven upon
the solitary adventure of the saints in this bottom. ‘This poor man cried,’ said David, ‘and the Lord...saved him
out of all his troubles,’ Ps.
34:6. As if he
had said, Haply you are afraid to be so bold to go alone and visit God in
secret. Though you dare venture to
join with others in prayer, and hope to find welcome when you go with such good
company, yet you are ready to say, Will God look upon me, or my single
prayer? Yes, behold me, saith
David, who am newly come from his door, where I lay praying in as poor a
condition, and as sad a plight, as ever beggar was at man’s—a poor exile, in the
midst of enemies that thirsted for my blood. Yet I—and that when I betrayed so much dastardly unbelief
as to scrabble on the wall like a madman—cried, and God heard. Who then need be afraid, either from
his outward straits or inward infirmities, if sincere, to go with a humble
boldness unto God? Nay, further,
as God hath a pitiful eye to see when we pray in secret, so also an angry eye,
that sees when we do not. I have
read of a prince that would, in the evening, walk abroad in a disguise, and listen
under his subjects’ windows, whether they talked of him, and what they
said. To be sure God’s eye and ear
watcheth us, ‘the Lord hearkened, and heard it,’ Mal. 3:16. And he that hath a book of remembrance
for his saints that fear him and think upon his name, hath also a black bill
for their names who shut him out of their hearts and closets. ‘The Lord looked down from heaven upon
the children of men, to see if there were any that did understand, and seek
God.’ Though his seat be in
heaven, yet his eye is on earth; and what doth he observe but whether men
‘understand and seek after God?’
(2.)
In regard of ourselves—the more to prove our sincerity. I do not say that to pray in secret
amounts to an infallible character of sincerity—for hypocrisy may creep into
our closet when the door is shut closest, as the frogs did into Pharaoh's
bed-chamber. Yet this is not the
hypocrite’s ordinary walk. And
though his heart may be naught that frequently performs secret duty, yet, to
be sure, his heart cannot be good whose devotion is all spent before men, and
is a mere stranger to secret communion with God; or else our Saviour, in
drawing the hypocrite’s picture, would not have made this to be the very cast
of his countenance, ‘When thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites
are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues,’ &c. ‘But thou, when thou prayest, enter
into thy closet,’ Matt.
6:5, 6. The command sends us as well to the closet
as to the church; and he is a hypocrite that chooseth one and neglects the
other; for thereby it appears he makes conscience of neither. He likes that which may gain him the
name of religious in the opinion of men, and therefore puts on a religious
habit abroad, but in the meantime lives like an atheist at home. Such a one may for a time be the
world’s saint, but God will at last uncase him, and present him before the eyes
of all the world for a hypocrite.
The true lover delights to visit his friend when he may find him alone,
and enjoy privacy with him; and I have read of a devout person who, when the
set time for his private devotions were come, would, whatever company he was
in, break from them with this handsome speech, ‘I have a friend that stays for
me, farewell!’ It is worth parting with our best friends on earth, to enjoy
communion with the God of heaven.
One called his friends thieves, because they stole time from him. None worse thieves than they who rob us
of our praying seasons.
(3.)
In regard of the duty itself, and the influence which the holy management
of it would have upon the Christian’s life. This duty is a main pillar to uphold the whole frame of our
spiritual building. Without this the Christian’s house—as Solomon saith of the
sluggard’s—will drop out at the windows. That which is most necessary to keep
the house standing is underground—I mean the foundation. That which keeps the
man alive is the heart in his breast, that is unseen. Cease your secret communion, and you undermine your
house—you stab godliness to the heart.
If the tree grow not in the root, it will ere long wither in the
branch. He that declines this way,
can be a gainer in no other. How
zealous soever he may appear, all, without this, is but a distempered heat, as
when the outward parts burn but the inward chill. Such a one may pray to the quickening and comforting of
others, but he will get little of either himself. The truth is, this is the first step toward apostasy. Backsliders grow first out of
acquaintance with God in secret.
Their delight in this duty declines by little and little. then are they less frequent in their
visits. Upon which follows a
casting off of the duty quite—and yet they may appear great sticklers and zealots
in public ordinances. But, if they
recover not what they have lost in their secret trade, they will ere long break
here also.
USE
OR APPLICATION.
[What communion with
God in secret prayer,
or the neglect of it,
implies.]
Use
First. Let us here admire
the condescending love of God, in stooping to hold any communion with his
poor creatures, while they are clad with rags of mortality, and those besmeared
also with many sinful pollutions.
It is not enough that in heaven, when we shall put on our robes of
glory—befitting the attendance of so great a King—that then he will take us into
his royal presence, and give us places with those that stand above him; but
will he even now, while our garments smell of the prison, and before our
grave-cloth es be quite thrown off, admit us to be so near an accession? ‘What manner of love is this,’ that we
should now be ‘called the children of God,’ and as such have liberty to speak
our gibberish and broken language, and that with delight to him who continually
hath the praises of blessed angels and glorified saints sounding in his ears! Nay, yet more, this liberty to be
indulged us, not only when we come together and make up a choir in our public
worship, but in our solitary and secret addresses! That a poor creature, whenever himself hath but a heart to
step aside, and give God a visit in any corner of his house, should find the
arms of so great a majesty open to embrace him!—this is so stupendous that we
may better admire than express it.
Should we see a poor beggar speaking familiarly with a great king—who,
while all his courtiers stand bare before him, takes him into his embraces, and
lets him familiarly whisper in his ear —might it not draw forth our wonderment
at such an act of grace from majesty to beggary? This is the glorious privilege of every saint on earth,
who, when he prays, hath liberty to come up to the throne of God surrounded
with glorious angels, and into his bosom to pour out his soul as freely as the
child may speak to his indulgent father.
O thank our good friend and brother, the Lord Jesus Christ, for
this! It is he that brings us into
the presence of God, and sets us before his face—as Joseph his brethren before
Pharaoh. Whose face need a saint fear to look upon, that may thus boldly speak
to God? Comfort thyself with this,
Christian, when thou goest with thy petition to any great man on earth, and he
will not be seen of thee —or such a rich kinsman, and he will not own thee
—turn thy back of them both, and go to thy God, he will look on thee, and in
his Son own thee for his child.
Thou hast his ear that can command their heart and purse too. Jacob’s prayer altered his brother’s
purposes, that he who meant to kill him falls on his neck to kiss him. Nehemiah had a boon to beg of the
Persian king, and he goes—a carnal heart would think—the farthest way about to
obtain it. He knocks first at
heaven door: ‘Prosper, I pray thee, thy servant this day, and grant him mercy
in the sight of this man,’ Neh. 1:11. And now to court he goes, where, behold, he finds the door
open before he knocks. For the
king said unto him, ‘For what dost thou make request?’ ch. 2:4. We may, you see, open two doors with
this one key. At the prayer of
this holy man, God and man both give their gracious answer. The Christian surely cannot long be in
want if he can but pray. As one
said, the pope would never want money so long as he could hold a pen in his
hand. It is but praying in faith,
and the thing is done which the Christian would have. Be careful for nothing; but... let your requests be made
known unto God; and the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall
keep your hearts,’ &c., Php. 4:6, 7. ‘Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust
also in him; and he shall bring it to pass,’ Ps. 37:5. the
saints’ bills are received at first sight, whatever the sum is. Christ is our
undertaker to see it paid; and his credit holds still in his Father’s bosom,
and will, to procure welcome for all his saints, even to the least and last of
them that shall be found on earth.
Use
Second. This blots their
names from among the number of saints that were never acquainted with this duty. What! a saint, and content with what
thou hast of God, in joint communion with others, at church or family, so as
never to desire any privacy between God and thyself! Canst find no errand to invite thee to speak with God
alone? Thou bringest thy saintship
into question. When a prince
passeth by in the street, then all—even strangers themselves—will come in a
throng to see him. But his child
thinks not this enough, but goes home with him, must live with him, and be
under his eye daily. Hypocrites
and profane ones will crowd into public ordinances, but a gracious soul
cannot live without more retired converse with him.
Use
Third. Be exhorted, O ye
saints, to hold up your secret acquaintance with God. ‘I am persuaded’ —as Paul said to
Festus in another case—that none of these things’ which I have spoken
concerning this duty, ‘are hidden from thee,’ if a saint. ‘Believest thou’ that this is thy duty? ‘I know that thou believest.’ Dost thou pray in secret? I dare not question it; the Spirit of
Christ which is in thee will not suffer thee to be wholly a stranger from
it. But I would provoke thee to
be more abounding therein. ‘These
things have I written,’ saith John, ‘unto you that believe on the name of the
Son of God,...that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God,’ I John 5:13
—that is, that you may believe more.
And these things do I now write to you that call upon the name of God in
secret, that you may call oftener; and this you need, except you lived further
from Satan’s quarters than the rest of your brethren do. No duty more opposed by Satan or our
own slothful hearts than this. The
devil can allow you your church prayers, your family duties, and now and then a
formal one in your closet too, and yet make his market of you. Therefore take
along with you these three or four directions for your better managing thereof.
[Directions for
secret prayer.]
1.
Direction. Let it be your constant
trade. Rolling stones gather
no moss. Unstable and unconstant
hearts will never excel in this or any other duty. The spirit of prayer is a
grace infused, but advanced to further degrees by daily exercise. Frequency begets familiarity, and
familiarity confidence. We go boldly into his house whom we often visit.
2.
Direction. Let it be true
secret prayer, and not have its name for naught. Take heed no noise be heard abroad of what thou dost in
secret. ‘Enter into thy closet,’
said Christ, ‘and when thou hast shut thy door, pray.’ Be sure thou shuttest it so close that
no wind of vainglory comes in.
Rather than there should, shut the door of thy lips as well as of thy
closet; God can hear though thy mouth delivers not the message. It is true, when Daniel prayed he
‘opened his window,’ but it was to show his faith, not his pride—that he might
let the world know how little he feared their wrath, not that he coveted their
praise. God curiously observes which way the eye turns, and it is a dishonour
he will not bear that thou shouldst be pensioner to the world in expecting thy
reward from man and not himself.
Lose not God’s euge —well done! for man’s plaudite—applause. This is to change heaven for earth, and
that is a bad bargain.
3.
Direction. Be free and
open. Come not to God in
secret and keep thy secrets from him; speak thy very heart, and hide nothing
from him. To be reserved and
close is against the law of friendship.
‘I have called you friends,’ saith Christ, ‘for all things which I have
heard of my Father I have made known unto you.’ Is Christ so open‑hearted not to conceal anything he knows
for our good? and wouldst thou have any secret box in thy cabinet, that he—if
thou couldst help it—should not see?
Art thou confessing sins?
Strip thy soul naked, and shuffle not with God. If thou dost, it speaks
one of these two things—thou hast some secret design of sin for the future; or
harbourest an ill opinion of God in thy breast concerning thy past sins, as if
he would not be faithful to forgive what thou art free to confess; like some
prodigal child who, though his father promiseth to pay all his debts, and
forgive him also, yet because the sum is vast, dares not trust his father with
the whole truth, but conceals some in his confession. The first of these is not the spot of God's children; but
into the latter they sometimes fall, and, for a while, may be held by Satan’s
policy and their own unbelief. But
consider, Christian, whatever thy sin is, and how great soever, yet the way to
obtain pardon is by confessing, not concealing it. Neither is it concealed from God, though thou confess it
not. But God likes a confession
out of thy own mouth so well, that as soon as thou dost lay open thy own shame,
he hath obliged himself faithfully to cover it with the mantle of pardoning
mercy. ‘If we confess our sins, he
is faithful and just to forgive us our sins,’ I John 1:9. Again, art thou making thy requests to
God? carry no burden away upon thy spirit, through a foolish modesty and fear
of troubling God too much, or asking too deep, so long as the promise is on thy
side. Christ never complained that
his saints opened their mouths, or enlarged their desires, too wide in prayer;
nay, he bids his disciples open them wider, and tells them, ‘they had asked
nothing;’ that is, nothing proportionable to the large heart in his breast to
give.
4.
Direction. It must be seasonable. This gives everything its beauty. (1.) Take heed that it doth not
justle with public worship.
The devil takes great pleasure in setting the ordinances of God at
variance one against another. Some
he persuades to cry up public prayer, and neglect secret; and others he would
fain bring out of love with the public, by applauding the other; whereas there
is room enough for both in thy Christian course. Moses, though he killed the Egyptian, yet the two Israelites,
when scuffling together, he laboured to reconcile. Beware of giving Satan such an advantage as to neglect the
communion of saints in the public, under a pretence of praying in thy
closet. This is to set one
ordinance to fight with another.
They are sister ordinances, set them not at variance. Deny thy presence in the public, and
thou art sure to lose God's presence in thy closet: ‘He that turneth away his
ear from hearing the law, even his prayer shall be abomination,’ Prov. 28:9. (2.) Look that it interferes not
with thy duty in thy particular calling. As thou art to shut thy closet door to pray, so open thy
shop windows for following thy calling in the world. Go into thy closet before thy shop, or else thou art an
atheist; but, when thou hast been with God there, attend thy shop and calling,
or else thou art a hypocrite. Thou
consistest of soul and body; God divides thy employment between both. He that is not diligent in the duty he
owes God concerning both, is conscientious in neither. When every part in the body hath its
due nourishment distributed to it health is preserved. So here. He is the sound Christian that divides his care wisely for
his spiritual state and temporal also. Sleep not away thy time for prayer in the morning, and then
think thou art sufficiently excused for omitting it because thy worldly
business calls thee another way.
Jade not thy body with over-labouring, nor overcharge thy mind with too
heavy a load of worldly cares, in the day, and then think that the weariness of
the one, and discomposure of the other, will discharge thee from praying again
at night. This is to make a sin
thy apology for neglecting a duty.
Second.
Social Prayer—that which is performed in joint communion with others. It is double. Either it is private or public—family prayer or church
prayer. To this, however, we assigned a separate distinction.
[Social prayer
distinguished as
family
prayer or
church prayer.]
Third Distinction. Social and joint prayer is either
private in the family or public in the church. I begin with the first—family prayer.
[Family prayer a duty
incumbent
on the head of the
family.]
First. Social or joint prayer may be private
in the family. By a family I
mean a society of certain persons in mutual relation each to other, natural or
civil, who live together under the domestic government of husband, master, or
parent. Wherever such a family is
found, it is the duty of the governor of it to set up the worship of God there,
and this part of worship in particular—prayer in the family. The Jews had their family sacrifice, Ex. 12:21,
which the master of the house performed at home with his family. There still
remains a spiritual sacrifice of prayer and thanksgiving, which every master of
a family is with his household to offer up to God. The private house is the Christian’s ‘chapel of ease,’ to
worship God in daily with his company.
The church began in a family, and it is upheld still by the piety of
private families. If the nursery
be not preserved, the orchard must needs in time decay.
Question. But the question will be, how can it be
proved that family prayer is a duty?
Answer. I hope none will require an set place
of Scripture commanding this in terminis—in set terms, or else not
believe it a duty incumbent upon them. This were the way not only to lose this
part of God’s worship, but other duties also. It will trouble us to find an express word commanding us totidem
verbis, or, in plain terms, to keep the Christian Sabbath, or to baptize
our infant children; yet, God forbid we should, with some, shake off the
ordinances upon this account. That
which by necessary consequence can be deduced from Scripture, is Scripture, as
well as that which is laid down in express terms. And if this will content you—which I am sure should—I will
hope to give you some satisfaction.
[How it can be proved
that family prayer is a duty.]
1.
That general command for prayer will bring this of family prayer within
the compass of our duty: ‘I will therefore that men pray every where,’ I Tim. 2:8. If ‘everywhere,’ then surely, saith Mr.
Perkins upon this place, in our families, where God hath set us in so near
relation to one another. Paul
salutes the church in Aquila and Priscilla’s house, Rom. 16:5. And were they not a strange church who
should live together without praying together?—had they deserved so high and
honourable a name if they had thus shut God out of doors? This were to call them a church, as a
grove is called lucus, à non lucendo—from not giving light. The Jews, when they built any of them a
new house to dwell in, they were to dedicate it, Deut. 20:5;
and the manner of dedicating their new-built houses was with prayer, as you may
see by the title of Ps. 30, penned on this occasion: ‘A Psalm and Song at the
dedication of David ‘s house.’
This they did—
(1.)
To express their thankfulness to God, who had given them a
habitation. Indeed, it is no small
mercy to have a settled place for our abode—a convenient house for ourselves
and relations peaceably to dwell in; it is more than those precious saints had
‘who wandered in deserts, and in mountains, and in dens and caves of the
earth,’ Heb.
11:38; yea, than Christ himself had: ‘The foxes have holes,
and the birds of the air have nests; but the Son of man hath not where to lay
his head. Matt.
8:20.
(2.)
By this they were admonished to acknowledge themselves tenants to God,
and that they held their houses of him, their great landlord, upon condition of
doing him homage, by making their houses as so many sanctuaries for his worship
while they lived in them. So
Mollerus upon the place.
2.
The trust which governors of families are charged with will evince it is
their duty to set up prayer in their families. Every master of a family hath curam
animarum—he hath the care of souls upon him as well as the minister. He is prophet, king, and priest in his
own house, and from every one of these will appear this his duty.
(1.)
He is a prophet, to teach and instruct his family. Wives are bid to
learn at home of their husbands, I Cor. 14:34, 35. Then sure they are to teach them at
home. Parents are commanded to
instruct their children, ‘Ye shall teach them your children, speaking of them
when thou sittest in thine house,’ Deut. 11:19. And, ‘To bring them up in the nurture
and admonition of the Lord,’ Eph. 6:4. Now, there is a teaching and admonition by prayer to God and
praising of God, as well as in catechising of them: ‘Teaching and admonishing
one another in psalms and hymns,’ Col. 3:16. The master’s praying with his family
will teach them how to pray when by themselves. The confessions he makes, petitions he puts up, and mercies
he acknowledgeth in his family duty, are an excellent means to furnish them
with matter for their devotions.
How comes it to pass that many servants and children, when they come to
be themselves heads of families, are unable to be their relations’ mouth to
God in prayer—but because they have, in their minority, lived in prayerless
families, and were kept in ignorance of this duty, whereby they have neither
head nor heart, knowledge or affections, suitable for such a work?
(2.)
He is a king in his house, to rule his family in the fear of God. As the political magistrate’s duty is
to set up the true worship of God in his kingdom, so he is to do it in his
house. He is to say with Joshua,
‘I and my house, we will serve the Lord.’
Were it a sin in a prince, though he served God himself in his palace,
yet if he did not set up the public worship of God in his kingdom? Surely then it is a sin the governor
of a family not to set it up in his house, though he prays himself in his
closet.
(3.)
He is a priest in his own house, and where there is a priest there must
be a sacrifice; and what sacrifice among Christians but the spiritual
sacrifices of prayer and thanksgiving? Thus David, we find, went from public ordinances to private
duty with his family, ‘Then David returned to bless his household,’ II Sam. 6:20;
that is, saith one upon the place, he returned to worship God in private with
them, and to crave a blessing from God upon them. And this hints a third particular.
3.
The practice of saints in all ages hath been to have a religious care of
their families. Good Joshua
promised for himself and his house that they would serve the Lord. If he meant the inward worship of God,
he promised more than he was able to perform in regard of his family, for he
could not thrust grace into their hearts.
We must therefore understand him that it should not be his fault if they
did not, for he would use all means in his power to make them do so. He would set them a holy copy in his
own example, and he would take care that they should not live without the worship
of God in his family. We find
Elisha praying with his servant, II Kings 4:33, master
and man together—queen Esther and her maids keeping private fast in her family,
Est. 4:16. Now it were uncharitable to think that
she was a stranger to the ordinary exercise of this duty, who was so forward to
perform the extraordinary, and put others also upon it. Surely this gracious woman did not
begin her acquaintance with this duty now, and take it up only at a dead lift
in her present strait. That were a
gluttonous fast, indeed, that should devour the worship of God in her family
for all the year after. Cornelius’ family religion is upon record, ‘A devout
man, and one that feared God with all his house, which gave much alms to the
people, and prayed to God alway,’ Acts 10:2. Mark, he was ‘a devout man, and feared
God with all his house.’ Fear is
oft put for the worship of God.
God is called ‘the Fear of Isaac,’ Gen. 31:53; that is, the God
whom Isaac worshipped. ‘Him shall
ye fear, and him shall ye worship;...neither shall ye fear other gods,’ II Kings 17:36, 37;
that is, ye shall not worship or pray unto them. Thus we may conceive Cornelius was a devout man, and feared
God with his house. Surely he that
was merciful to the poor at his door, to refresh his pinched bowels with his
alms, could not be so cruel to his relations’ souls within his house as to lock
up his religion in a closet from them.
[Three objections to
family prayer answered.]
Objection
(a). But what necessity is
there that a family must meet jointly to worship God together? will it not
serve if every one prays for himself in his closet?
Answer. A family is a collective body. As such it owes a worship to God. It is he that ‘setteth the solitary in
families,’ Ps.
68:6; and as their founder, will be vouched by them. ‘Pour
out thy fury upon the families that call not on thy name,’ Jer. 10:25. It holds in domestic families as well
as national; foe he rears up the one as well as the other. There are family sins; and these are to
be confessed by the family, as national sins by the nation. There are family wants, and they
require the joint supplications of the family. There are family occasions and
employments, and those call for the united force of the family, to pull down a
blessing upon their joint labours for the good of the whole society. ‘Except the Lord build the house, they
labour in vain that build it.’ And
is it not fit that they who join in work should join in prayer for a blessing
on their endeavour? There are
family mercies that the whole society share in; and is it not meet that they
which eat of the same feast should join in the same song of praise to the
founder of it? In a word, there
are judgements that may wrap up the whole family, and where all are concerned
in the danger all should lend their help to prevent it—and many hand make light
work. A rope twisted of many cords
is stronger than those very cords would be if single; and so the prayer of many
together more prevalent, because likely to be more fervent, than of the same
persons severally employed in their closets —though I would not learn one to
justle with the other. There is
room for both; why should they fall out?
Polanus (in
his Syntag. de Terræmotu) tells us of a town in the territory
of Berne in Switzerland, consisting of ninety houses, that was in the year
1584 destroyed by an earthquake, except the half of one house, where the master
of the family was earnestly praying with his wife and children upon their
bended knees to God.
Objection
(b). O, but I have not
abilities and gifts for such a work, and better left undone than spoiled in
the doing.
Answer. No more hadst thou skill and ability
for thy trade when thou wentest first to be an apprentice. Apply thy mind to
the work; bind the duty upon thy conscience; search the scripture, where matter
for prayer is laid up, and rules how to perform the duty. Study thy heart, and
observe the state of thy family, till the sense of the sins, wants, and daily
mercies thereof—which thou hast lodged in thy memory—be left warm upon thy
spirit. In a word, exercise
thyself frequently in secret prayer, be earnest there for his Spirit to enable
thee in thy family service, and take heed of driving the Holy Spirit from thee,
whose assistance thou prayest for, by sloth, worldliness, pride, or any other
course of wickedness. Then, up and
be doing, and thou mayest comfortably expect God will be with thee, both to
assist and accept thee in the work.
Moses was sick of his employment that God called him to, and fain would have
put it off with this mannerly excuse, ‘I am not eloquent,...but I am of a slow
speech.’ But this objection was
soon answered: ‘And the Lord said unto him, Who hath made man’s mouth? or who
maketh the dumb, or deaf, or the seeing, or the blind? have not I the
Lord? Now therefore go, and I
will be with thy mouth, and teach thee what thou shalt say,’ Ex. 4:11, 12. His call was extraordinary, and his
assistance was such. Thy call to
this duty, as the head of a family, is ordinary, and so thou mayest look for
ordinary assistance. Haply thou
shalt never have an ability, to such a degree, with a flow of words to express
thyself as some others. But let
not that discourage thee. God
looks not at the pomp of words and variety of expressions, but sincerity and
devotion of the heart. The key
opens not the door because gilt, but because fitted to the wards of the
lock. Let but the matter of thy
prayer be according to God’s mind, holy and warrantable, and the temper of thy
heart humble and fervent, and no fear but thou shalt speed. Yea, let the prayer be old—pray to‑day
what thou didst yesterday; be but sure to bring new affections with the old
prayer, and thou shalt be friendly received into God’s presence, though thou
canst not on a sudden put thy requests into a new shape. God will not shut his child out of
doors because he comes not every day in a new-fashioned suit.
Objection
(c). Others there are who
object not their own weakness as the reason of their not praying in their
families, but the wickedness of others in their family. They are confident enough of their own
gifts, but question others’ grace, and whether they may pray with such.
Answer. I will grant there are such in thy
family. But is this a ground to
lay aside the worship of God? Little thinkest thou whither this principle will
lead. By this principle the worship of God should not only be laid aside in
most private houses but in all our public congregations also. If thou mayest not pray in thy family
because a wicked person is present, then not join in prayer with any public
congregation, because thou canst never be assured that they are all godly; nor
must the minister pray there, for fear some wicked ones should be in the
company; and so this part of divine worship must be thrown out of the church
till we can find an assembly made up of all true saints; and where such a one
ever was, or will be on this side of heaven, none I think is able to tell.
Surely the saints in Scripture were not thus scrupulous. How oft did Christ himself pray with
his disciples, though a Judas was among them! I have elsewhere, clearly I think, proved it is the duty of
all, even of the wicked, to pray; and that God will never charge the act of
prayer upon him as sin, but his obliquity therein; much less will he impute to
thee another’s sinful frame of heart with whom thou joinest in prayer. Pray thou in faith, and his unbelief
shall not prejudice thy faith, nor his pride thy humility. Thou joinest with him in the duty, but
hast no communion with his sin.
You may as well say, if a cut‑purse in the time of prayer should pick
another’s pocket, that all the company are guilty of his theft. How much better
were it, Christian, to fear lest thou pray with a wicked heart in thy own
bosom, than with a wicked person in thy family? Thou art like neither to hurt thy own soul by praying in his
company, nor better his by omitting for his sake. May be, though he be carnal, yet he is outwardly complying,
and how knowest thou but thy prayer—especially in his presence—may pierce his
heart, and give a lift towards his conversion? Such I have heard of who have had the first sensible
impression made upon their hearts in this duty of prayer. If he be not only carnal, but a mocker
at the worship of God, and a disturber of the duty, better thou shouldst, with
Abraham, turn such an Ishmael out of doors, than for his sake turn God out of
doors by denying him the worship due unto him.
USE
OR APPLICATION.
[Reproof to those who
unnecessarily throw
themselves to live in
families that are prayerless.]
Use
First. What we have said of
family prayer gives reproof to those Christians who needlessly, and upon
choice, throw themselves upon such families where the worship of God is not set
up. Dost thou know whither
thou goest? Thou art running with
Jonah from the presence of the Lord, and mayest expect a storm to be sent
after thee. Haply thou art a servant,
who once didst live in a godly family, where thou hadst many sweet privileges
and spiritual advantages —a table spread every day for thy soul as oft as for
thy body, besides some exceedings now and then of extraordinary duties—and
thereby didst enjoy a kind of heaven upon earth; but, for a little ease in thy
work, or gain in thy wages, thou hast made this unhappy change, to put thyself
under the roof of those who will sooner learn thee to curse and swear than to
pray; and where, by the orders kept in the family, thou canst not know a Lord's‑day
from a week-day, or whether there be such a thing as religious worship and
invocation due to thy Maker or no.
Alas, poor creature! What!
wert thou even now in so green a pasture, and now wandering upon the barren
heath, where nothing is to be got for thy precious soul? —where, as on the
mountains of Gilboa, none of those heavenly dews fall with which thy soul was
wont to be wet and watered? Truly
thou art gone out of God’s blessing into the warm sun. Had God, indeed, cast thee by a necessary
providence on such a place, thou mightest then have hoped to keep thy spiritual
plight, though wanting thy former repast; but, being thy own choice, it is to
be feared thou wilt soon pine and languish in thy spiritual state. Leanness is like to shrivel up thy
soul, while thou hast thy fat morsels in thy mouth. Thy spirit will grow light and poor, though thy purse may
grow heavy. We shall have thee ere
long complain, as Naomi, that thou ‘wentest out full, but comest home
empty.’ How darest thou choose to
dwell where God himself doth not by his gracious presence? He inhabits the
praises of his people, and takes his abode in the house of prayer. And if the
Holy Spirit dwells not, walks and breathes not in the house, it must needs be
haunted with the evil one. Make
thy stay there as short as may be. Leave the dead to dwell with the dead, atheist
with atheist; thy safety will be to get among better company. Is the church so barren of godly
families, that no such are to be found who will open their door to let thee
in? Go inquire where such live,
and offer to do the meanest office in that house, where thou mayest enjoy thy
former privileges for thy soul, rather than stay where thou art. The very beasts groan to serve the
wicked, whereas holy angels themselves disdain not to minister unto the
saints.
But
haply thou wilt say, it is not thy choice, but necessity. Thou art by thy parents put apprentice
to a master that is wicked, or thou livest under thy own parents’ shadow, and
thou canst not help it though they be profane; or with a husband whom thou
didst hope, at thy choice of him, would prove a help meet to thy soul, but thou
findest it otherwise; what would you have us in this case do?
1.
Mourn under it as thy great affliction. Thus David did when he lived in Saul’s wicked family, whose
court and family, for irreligion and profaneness, he compareth to the
barbarous Arabians and profane Ishmaelites, lamenting he was cooped up with
such, whom, by his relation, he could not well leave, and for their wickedness
he could worse bear. ‘Woe is me that I sojourn in Meshech, and dwell in the tents
of Kedar.’
2.
Be the more in thy secret communion with God. If thou didst live with a niggard[1]
who pinched thee for thy belly, wouldst thou not, though thou hadst but a penny
in thy purse, lay it out for bread rather than starve? Thou hadst need have a bit the more in
a corner because thou art cut short of thy daily bread in the family. Thy soul cannot live without communion
with God. Take that thyself which
others will not be so kind to allow thee; and, that thou mayest do this,
husband all thy ends of time the better.
Thou shalt thus, by God’s blessing, (1.) Keep thy spiritual life and
vigour; (2.) Be antidoted against the infection of that profane air thou
breathest in; and, (3.) Have a vent to ease thy incumbered spirit of those
griefs, reproaches, and trials thou canst not but meet with from such
relations. Gracious Hannah had an
adversary in the same family—Peninnah by name —who provoked her sorely, even to
make her fret; but this sent her to God in prayer, and there she eased her soul
of her burden.
3.
Adorn thy piety to God by faithful performance of thy duty to thy relations,
though they be not so good as thou desirest. Art thou a servant and thy master profane? Be thou submissive and humble, diligent
and faithful. Let him see that
thou darest not rob him of thy time by sloth, or wrong him in his estate by falseness—though
he be a thief to thy soul by not providing for it—but dost, with thy utmost
skill and strength, endeavour to discharge thy trust to him. We see too oft that the unfaithfulness
and negligence of some professing servants, do set their carnal masters
further off from the worship of God than before they were; yea, make them loathe
the duties of religion, which otherwise they might have been won unto, till at
last they come to think all profession and forwardness in the duties of piety
towards God, to be but a hypocritical cloak to cover some unfaithfulness to
men, and to say of their servants when they beg leave to go to a sermon, and
wait on God in his ordinances, as Pharaoh of the Israelites, ‘Ye are idle, ye
are idle: therefore ye say, Let us go and do sacrifice to the Lord,’ Ex. 5:17. Thus, as the apostle tells us, the name
of God and his doctrine comes to be blasphemed by the ill behaviour of
professing servants, I
Tim. 6:1.
Again,
art thou a wife, and thy husband carnal, who lives without any care of his own
soul, or those under his roof? Pray the more for him because he prays not with
thee. Pray thou for thy family in
thy closet, though he neglects it in the house. But, with this, be sure to commend thy piety to thy
husband’s conscience, and make it as legible as may be to his eye, by thy
meekness of wisdom in thy carriage to him, and whole conversation in thy
family. A fair print invites to
read the book. Religion fairly
printed in thy meek and dutiful behaviour to him, and discretion in all thy
affairs, how knowest thou but it may in time win him to the consideration of
the excellency of religion, which makes thee so officious and faithful to him?
He is an unwise angler that scares the fish he desires to take; and she an
unwise Christian that, by her peevish and undutiful carriage, offends her husband,
whose conversion she desires and prays for.
[Counsel to those
that live in praying families.]
Use
Second. A word of counsel to you
whom God hath planted in religious families.
1.
Bless God for casting thy lot in so pleasant a seat and fruitful a soil for
thy soul, where thou mayest suck in the sweet air of God’s Spirit that
breathes from thy godly parents or other governors at the throne of grace from
day to day; that thou art not wedged into some blind atheistical family, there
to live with a godless crew, among whom thou mightest have passed thy days
without any knowledge of thy Maker, and with them have been involved in that
curse of God which is in the house of the wicked, and hangs like a black cloud
in the threatening, ready to pour down upon the families that call not upon his
name. Look round thy neighbourhood
and see how many families there are who live like brutes, as in so many dark
caves and dens, where none of that heavenly light is seen, from one end of the
year to the other, which shines on thy face every day. What nurture and breeding should thy
soul have had under the tutoring of such parents and masters, who themselves
live ‘without God in the world?’
The queen of Sheba counted them happy that stood before Solomon, not so
much that they might see his pomp, but hear his wisdom. O happy thou—if grace to know thy privilege—that
thou ministerest unto a godly master, art under gracious parents, or yoked to a
holy husband, from whose devout prayers, pious counsels, and Christian
examples, thou mayest gain more than if they had the wealth, delicacies, and
preferments of Solomon’s court to confer upon thee.
2.
Look you make improvement of this spiritual advantage, or else it will
go worse with you than others.
Rebellious Israel is told, ‘They shall know that they had a prophet
among them.’ The meaning is, they
shall know it to their cost; and so shall those that have lived in families,
under such governors who went before them, and, as it were, chalked out a way
to heaven by their godly example, lamenting over their precious souls so oft
with their prayers and tears. If
such miscarry, they shall know to their terror what families they once live in
but had not a heart to prize or improve the mercy. God forbid that any of you should find the way to hell out
of such doors, and force your way to damnation through such means afforded to
prevent it. What will Cain answer
when his father that begat him shall bear witness against him, and say, ‘Lord,
this wicked child of mine never learned his atheism of me. I brought him to thy worship and
taught him thy fear, but he liked it not, and first proved a murderer and then
an apostate. First, he behaved
himself wickedly in thy service, and then ran out of thy doors and cast it
quite off.’ What will then the flouting
wife of David—who, though of a wicked stock, was privileged with so gracious a
husband—say when she shall be accused for making him her laughing‑stock for
his zeal in the worship of God? Or how will the wicked children of the same
holy man who walked with such uprightness in his house look their godly father
on the face at the great day? You, my children, said dying Mr. Bolton, dare
not, I believe, meet me at the day of judgment in an unregenerate state. The weight of such holy men’s prayers
and admonitions will then sink their ungodly relations deeper into hell than
others who drop thither out of dark and blind families.
[A word to those
heads of families that have
not the worship of
God in their houses.]
Use
Third. Unto you that are heads
of families, but yet have not had a heart to set up the worship of God in
them. I am afraid God hath
little from you in your closets who hath none in your families. It is no breach of charity to suspect
your care for your own souls that show none for your relations. If ever thou hadst been acquainted with
God thyself and tasted any sweetness in secret communion with him, couldst thou
thus rob thy family of so great a blessing? Could you find such a treasure, and hide it from them you
love so well? Have they not souls
as precious in their bosoms as thy own?
Art thou not willing they should find the way to heaven as well as
thyself? Yea, art thou not God's
feoffee[2]
in trust to take care of their souls as well as of their bodies? Dost thou owe no more to thy child and
servant than to thy hog or horse?
Their bodies are looked to, and wilt thou do no more for the other? How knowest thou but thy holy example
in the duties of God’s worship among them may leave such impressions on their
hearts as shall never be worn off to their dying day? Did you never hear any, to the praise of God, acknowledge
that the first turn towards heaven they ever had was by living in such a godly
family, where, with the worship of God, a savour and secret sense of the
things of God did secretly steal into their hearts? Certainly were our youth more acquainted with the duties of
religion in private, the minister’s work would be much facilitated in the
public. By this the consciences of
many would be preserved tender, and so become pliable to the counsels of the
word preached; whereas now the devil hath a sad advantage—from the irreligion
and atheism that is in most families—to harden their hearts to such a degree as
renders them almost impenetrable.
It is no wonder to see that tree thrives not which stands but little in
the sun; and as little wonder to see them continue profane and wicked that but
once in a week come under the beams of an ordinance, and then {neither} see
nor hear any more of God till the Sabbath comes about again.
Alas!
how is it like the spark should then be found alive which had all along the
week nothing to keep it from dying?
One well compareth the public ministry to the mason that builds the
house, and family governors to them that make the brick. Now, if you, by neglecting your duty,
bring clay instead of brick, you make the minister’s work double. The truth is, the neglect of family
worship opens a wide flood‑gate to let in a deluge of profaneness into the
church. Thou livest now without
the worship of God in thy family, and haply in a few years from under thy one
hive swarms many other families, children or servants, and it is most like they
will follow thy copy. Indeed, it were a wonder that they who are taught no
better should do otherwise; and so irreligion is like to spread apace. When thy head is laid in the dust thy
profaneness is not buried in thy grave with thee. No, thou leavest others behind to keep it alive. O how dismal is it to lay the
foundation of a sin to many generations!
The children unborn may rise up and curse such. If I had heard my father pray, may the
child say in a dying hour, or had been led into the acquaintance of the worship
of God by his example, then had not I lived like a heathen as I have done.
Well, as you would not have your children and servants meet you in the other
world with their mouths full of outcries and accusations—or if this, because it
seems further off, dread you not, as you would not have them prove a plague and
scourge to you in this world—let not your family government be irreligious. It
is just that God should suffer thy servant to be unfaithful to thee in thy
estate, who art so to his soul; that thy children when old should forget their
duty to thee, that didst bring them up like heathens in their youth without
learning them their duty to God.
[A word to those
heads of families who do
have the worship of
God in their houses.]
Use
Fourth. To you that have
set up this duty in your families, a few words of counsel for the more holy
management thereof.
1.
Think it not enough to prove thee a saint that thou prayest in thy
family; you may set up the worship of God in your house and not enthrone God
in your hearts. God forbid that
you should bless yourselves in this, and dub yourselves saints because of
this. Alas! you are not as yet got
so far as some hypocrites have gone.
The duty is good, but the outward performance of it doth not demonstrate
any to be so. There are many turning to hell nearer heaven than this. From the act therefore, look to the end
thou proposest to thyself in it.
He is a foolish archer that shoots his arrow before he hath taken his aim
aright. The question God asks is, ‘Dost thou at all pray to me, even to
me?’ Thou mayest possibly affect
others with thy praying, yea, be instrumental to break their hearts by thy
confessions, and refresh their spirits by the sweet expressions that flow from
thee, thyself playing the hypocrite all the while. It behooves thee therefore to consider what is the weight
and spring which sets this duty agoing in thy family. Is it not to gain an opinion of being religious in others’
thoughts? If so, thou playest at small game. Indeed, religion were a sorry thing if this were all to be
got by it. When thou hast obtained this end it will not ease thee of one stitch
of conscience, nor quench one spark of hell’s tormenting fire for thee. But if this be it thou huntest after,
it is a question whether thou believest there be such a place or no. these few principles well girded by
faith about the loins of thy mind—that there is a God, and he is a rewarder of
those that diligently seek him; that heaven is prepared for the sincere, and
hell gapes for the hypocrite—would be enough to set thy heart right in the
duty. Though the traveller minds
not much his way where he apprehends no danger, yet, when he comes to pass
over a narrow bridge, where a wry step may hard his life by falling into a deep
river that runs on each hand, he will surely watch his eye that is to guide his
foot. This is thy case. Prayer is a solemn work as any thou
canst go about in thy whole lifetime.
A by‑end in this may hazard thy soul as much as a wry look thy body in
the other. We need do no more to
lose our souls than to seek ourselves.
2.
Take heed thou blottest not thy holy duties with an unholy life. If thou meanest to foul thy hands with
sin’s black work in the day, why dost thou wash them in the morning with
prayer? It is to no purpose to
begin with God and to keep the devil company all the day after. Religious orders in thy house and a
disordered conversation ill agree.
O! do not render the worship of God base to the thoughts of thy servants
and family. Those that like the
wine will yet nauseate it when brought in a cup that is nasty and unclean. The duties of God’s worship command a
reverence even from those that are carnal, but if performed by those that are
loose and scandalous they grow fulsome.
Eli’s sons made the people loathe the Lord’s sacrifices. By thy religious duties thou settest a
fair copy. O do not write it in
sinking paper. It is but a while
thou art seen upon thy knees; and a little seeming zeal at thy devotion will
not gild over a whole day's sinful miscarriage spent in passion, idleness,
riot, or any other unholy course.
It is said Christ preached with power and ‘authority, not as the
scribes,’ Matt.
7:29. Not but
that they had authority to preach, for they sat in Moses’ chair; but because
they lost that reverence, by not walking suitably to their doctrine, which
their place and work would have given them in the consciences of their
hearers. ‘They said and did not,’
and thereby rendered their doctrine ineffectual. If thou wouldst pray with authority and power, enforce thy
duties with purity of life.
3.
Preserve peace and unity in thy family. A brawling family cannot be a praying family. The apostle exhorteth husband and wife
to love and unity, lest their prayers be ‘hindered,’ I Peter 3:7. Contentions in a family, they both
hinder the spirit of prayer, and also the answer to our prayers.
(1.)
They hinder the spirit of prayer.
The Spirit of God is a Spirit of peace and love, and therefore delights
not to breathe in a troubled air.
The ready way to send him going is to brawl and chide. ‘Grieve not the Holy Spirit of God,’
saith the apostle, Eph.
4:30. And that
we may not, hear what is his counsel: ‘Let all bitterness, and wrath, and
anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all
malice.’ When these are gone, then
(and not before) look for his sweet company. You may as well dwell comfortably together with your house
on fire, as pray so together when you in the house are on fire.
(2.)
Contentions hinder the answer to our prayers. If we pray in anger, God cannot be pleased. ‘The wrath of
man worketh not the righteousness of God.’ A loud wind beats down the smoke. Our prayers are compared to incense, but they will never
ascend to heaven till this storm be laid.
Go to pray in this plight, and God will bid you come when you are better
agreed. The Spirit will not help
in such prayers; and if the Spirit hath no hand in the inditing, Christ will
have no hand in presenting the prayer.
And if Christ present it not, to be sure the Father will not receive it,
for ‘through him we have an access by one Spirit unto the Father,’ Eph. 2:18.
4.
Be very choice whom thou makest a member of thy family. Get, if thou canst, such under thy roof
as may give a lift with thee in thy family worship. Though it be not thy sin to pray with a wicked wife and
servant; yet is it thy sin to make choice of such for thy relations, if
otherwise thou canst help it. Yet,
alas! how little is this considered, though the blessing and comfort of the
family be deeply concerned therein!
A little beauty, honour, or pelf do too oft blind the eyes and bribe the
judgments of those we may hope to be themselves gracious, that they can yoke
themselves with such as are very unmeet to draw with them in heaven way and
work. David knew that Michal came
of a bad stock, but haply hoped to bring her over to comply with him in the
service of God, and we see what a grievous cross she proved to him. Solomon
tells us of some that trouble their own house, Prov. 15:27. He that for carnal respects takes a
wicked wife into his bosom, or servant into his family, is the man that is sure
to do this. Haply when he would
pray and praise God, his wife, like Job’s, will bid him curse. When he is at duty she will despise him
in her heart, and make a mock of his zeal, as Michal did of David’s. And so they who, for some natural
abilities they see in a servant, venture on him, though wicked and ungodly, pay
dearly for it. Such often bring with
them that plague of profaneness which infects the rest; so that, what they earn
their masters with their hands, they rob them of with their sins, which brings
the curse of God to their family. Who that is wise would build a house with
timber that is on fire? If the
servant thou entertainest be wicked, fire is in him that will endanger thy house. Make it therefore thy care to plant a
godly family. This was David’s
resolution—haply he saw the evil of his former choice: ‘Mine eyes shall be upon
the faithful of the land, that they may dwell with me: he that walketh in a
perfect way, he shall serve me. He
that worketh deceit shall not dwell within my house: he that telleth lies shall
not tarry in my sight,’ Ps.
101:6, 7. Then the music will be sweet in thy family
duties, when thou canst get a consort into thy house; such whose souls are in
tune for those holy services thou art to join with them in.
5.
Keep a diary of thy family sins and mercies, that so neither the one may
escape thy confession and humiliation, nor the other thy grateful
recognition. If this were
observed, we should not come with such jejune and barren hearts to the work, as
now, alas! most do. Take some time
to affect thy heart with both of these.
The brokenness of thy heart who prayest, will conduce much towards the
same disposition in those that join with thee. Nothing melts metal sooner than to pour on it {that} which
is melted. The drowsy speaker prays oft the rest asleep that join with
him. Take heed, therefore, of
formality; this is the canker which eats out the very heart of religious duties. Remember thou art to thy family what
the minister is to the public assembly.
As the deadness of his heart in prayer and preaching hath a bad operation
upon his people, to make them like himself, so hath thine on thy family. Thou dost not only suffer a personal
loss to thyself, but wrongest the rest of thy company. As when thou wastest thy estate, thy
wife, children, servants, and all fare the worse, and must pinch for it; so
when thou chokest up thy heart with inordinate cares of the world, or any other
way indisposest thyself by thy sinful walking for the duty of prayer, thy
whole family goes by the loss with thee.
6.
Observe the fittest seasons for duty in thy family, when with most
freedom and the least disturbance it may be performed. In the morning take the opportunity
before a throng of worldly business crowds in upon thee. In some families, I have observed,
where they are in great employments, that if duty be delayed till some worldly
occasions be despatched, then, either it hath been shut out, or shut up in such
straits of time that the slighty slovenly manner of performing it hath proved
little better than the total neglect.
To prevent this disorder, it is best to forestall the world's market,
betimes in the morning to set upon the duty, and offer up to God the
first-fruits of the day, before our thoughts meet with a diversion. We read that the Israelites gathered
their manna early ‘in the morning,’ and ‘when the sun waxed hot it melted,’ Ex. 16:21. I would wish, especially, such who
have multiplicity of worldly occasions, to take their time for communion with
God early, while their thoughts are more compact, before they are hot in their
worldly business, lest they then find their thoughts so diffused and scattered
among other businesses, as will not easily be gathered into a close and united
attendance upon God in the duty. Again, when night comes, delay not the work
till ye are more fit to go to your pillow than to your cushion, to sleep than
to pray. If the eye sleep, the
soul cannot well wake. Especially
consider your servants that labour hard in the day; O do not expose them to the
temptation of drowsy prayers! If
our hearts took delight in the work, we would plot and contrive which would be
the best time for communion with God, even as lovers do how and when they may
most privately meet together.
[Public or church
prayer required by God,
and the reasons why.]
Second. Social or joint prayer may be public
in the church. We mean by
this, that prayer offered in and by the church assembled together for the
worship of God. In handling of it
I shall endeavour these five things, to show—1. That God requires a public worship
of his people. 2. That prayer is a
part of this public worship he commands.
3. Why God requires a public worship, and in particular, public
prayer. 4. I shall resolve a
question or two concerning public prayer.
5. I shall make some applicatory improvement of this head.
1.
That God requires a public worship of his people. This word, cultus, or worship in
general, is obsequium alicui præstitum juxta excellentiam ejus —worship
is that honour and service which we give to anyone according to his
excellency. And that is threefold—civil,
moral, or divine. Civil worship
is the due honour and service we pay to a person in place and power over us, as
prince, father, or master. Moral,
is that due reverence and respect which we pay to a person that hath any
excellency of virtue or place, without authority over us. Thus we give honour and veneration
both to the saints living on earth with us, and to the saints and angels in
heaven. Religious or divine
worship is the honour and service we give to that Being who, we believe, is
the author of our beings and fountain of our happiness. Now this Being is God, and he
only. To him therefore, and him
alone, is religious worship due.
‘Thou shalt fear the Lord thy God, and serve him, and shalt swear by his
name. Ye shall not go after other
gods,’ Deut.
6:13, 14.
This religious worship of the true God comes under divers distinctions,
inward and outward, private and public. The public worship of God is the
present subject of our discourse—that, I mean, which the congregation performs
to him in their religious assemblies, called ‘the congregation of saints,’ Ps. 89:5;
and, ‘the assembly of saints,’ ver. 7. The church of God on earth began in a family, and so did
the worship of God. But when the
number increased, the worship of God became more public: ‘Then began men to
call upon the name of the Lord,’ Gen. 4:26; that is, they
began publicly, saith Mercer.
Seth and other of the religious seed began to have their holy assemblies
for the service of God (Willet,
in locum).
It is observable how God at the promulgation of the law on Sinai, when
he first formed the Israelites into a polity, took special care for erecting a
public worship to his name. That
was the ‘day of their espousals,’ Jer. 2:2. And then he instituted a solemn form
of public worship, with exact rules how it should be performed. The same care took our Lord Jesus for
his gospel church, in appointing both church ordinances and officers to
dispense the same.
2.
Prayer is part of that religious worship which the church is to perform to
God in her public assemblies, yea, a principal part, put therefore
frequently for the whole, ‘The inhabitants of one city shall go to another,
saying, Let us go speedily to pray before the Lord, and to seek the Lord of
hosts: I will go also. Yea, many people and strong nations shall come to seek
the Lord of hosts in Jerusalem, and to pray before the Lord,’ Zech. 8:21, 22. It is a prophecy how believers in
gospel times should zealously provoke one another to go to the assemblies of
the church—of which Jerusalem was a type—there to pray and worship God
together. ‘It is written,’ saith
our Saviour, ‘My house shall be called of all nations the house of prayer,’ Mark 11:17. This was partially performed when
converts in the apostles’ days did flock to Jerusalem, there to worship
God. Sed perfectè impletum est
illud in Christi ecclesia ex omnibus gentibus collectâ &c.—it is more
fully accomplished in the church of Christ, gathered out of all nations, that
should keep up the worship of God in their assemblies. St. Luke forgets not to mention this of
prayer amongst the other duties and offices of primitive Christians in their
assemblies, ‘And they continued stedfastly in the apostles’ doctrine and
fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers,’ Acts 2:42. By continuing stedfast ‘in the
apostles’ doctrine,’ Mr. Perkins understands their attendance on the
apostles’ sermons; by ‘fellowship,’ understands their contributions to
the poor, which were gathered at their assemblies, a work very fit for that
place, ‘for with such sacrifices God is well pleased,’ Heb. 13:16;
by ‘breaking of bread,’ the celebration of the Lord’s supper; and by ‘prayers,’
those which they put up together in communion at their church meetings. Nor is this of prayer crowded last,
because the least duty of the company, but rather because it hath a necessary
influence to them all. The word and sacraments, which God useth to sanctify his
people by, are themselves sanctified to us by prayer. And St. Paul, when he
hath shown, I
Tim. 1, what doctrine ministers are to preach in
the church, he, ch.
2, directs them what to insist chiefly on in their public
prayers: ‘I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers,
intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; for kings, and for
all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all
godliness and honesty,’ I
Tim. 2:1, 2.
This the church of Christ ever esteemed a principal part of their public
worship. Tertullian, speaking of
the assemblies of the church, saith, coimus in cætum et congregationem, ut
ad Deum quasi manu facta precationibus ambiamus orantes, hæc vis Deo grata est—we
meet in the congregation that we may by our fervent prayers environ God, as an
army doth a castle, and this holy fore with which we assault heaven pleaseth
him. I proceed to the third head,
to give some account.
3.
Why God requires a public worship or a joint service of his people in
communion together, and why this particular duty of prayer.
(1.)
As a free and open acknowledgment of their dependence on and allegiance to
God. It is most reasonable we
should own the God we serve, even in the face of the world, and not, like
Nicodemites, carry our religion in a dark lantern. He is unworthy of his master’s service that is ashamed to
wear his livery, and follow him in the street with it on his back. ‘Thou hast avouched,’ saith Moses to
Israel, ‘the Lord this day to be thy God, and to walk in his ways, and to keep
his statutes, and his commandments, and his judgments, and to hearken unto his
voice. And the Lord hath avouched
thee this day to be his peculiar people,’ Deut. 26:17, 18. Even heathens understand this much,
that they owe a free profession and public service to the god they vouch: ‘All
people will walk every one in the name of his god, and we will walk in the
name of the Lord our God for ever and ever,’ Micah 4:5. Now by walking in the name of God, they
mean they will invocate his name, and vouch him by a public worship, as you may
see by ver. 1, 2, of that chapter.
And this is a gospel prophecy concerning the last days; where, by the
way, we may take notice of the folly and pride of those that cast off public
ordinances, and private also, from a pretence of their high attainments,
leaving these duties of religion as strings for those that are yet children to
be led by. This is horrible pride
and ignorance to have such a high opinion of themselves. But were they so perfect as they
falsely imagine themselves, and needed not any further teaching, yet ought they
still to vouch God by worshipping of him?
The ground from which divine worship becomes due to God, is his own
infinite perfections, and our dependence on him as the author of our beings
and fountain of our bliss. Hence
it is, that angels and saints in heaven worship him, though in a way suitable
to their glorified state. Some
ordinances, indeed, fitted to the church militant on earth, shall there
cease. But a worship remains: yea,
it is their constant employment.
Saints on earth serve God always, but cannot always worship, therefore
they have stated times appointed them.
Now to cast off the worship of God is to renounce God himself, and communion
with his church both on earth and in heaven. ‘But ye are they that forsake the
Lord, that forget my holy mountain,’ Isa. 65:11. They did not give him his public worship,
and he interprets this as a casting him off from being their God. Sometimes, I confess, the church doors
are shut by persecutors, and, when this flood is up, the ways to Zion mourn;
yet then we are to lament after the Lord and his ark. Holy David was no stranger to private devotions, yet could
not but bewail his banishment from the public: ‘My flesh longeth for thee in a
dry and thirsty land, where no water is; to see thy power and thy glory, so as
I have seen thee in the sanctuary,’ Ps. 63:1, 2.
(2.)
To preserve love and unity in the church. God is one, and dearly loves
oneness and unity among his people.
The reason he gives why he would have the curtains of the tabernacle
coupled together, that it might be ‘one’ tabernacle, Ex. 36:13-18. The fastening of these curtains so
lovingly together for this end, that the tent might be one, signified the
knitting and clasping together of the saints in love. Now, though this be effected principally by the inward operation
of the Holy Spirit upon their hearts, for he alone can knit souls and knead
them into one lump; yet he useth their joint communion in ordinances as a happy
means through which he may convey and derive his grace that fastens them in
love together. These are the ligaments that tie one member to another in this
mystical body. And do we not see
that Christians, like members of the natural body, take care for, and
sympathize with, one another, so long as they are united in one communion? But when these ligaments are cut,
communion in worship is broke; then we see one member drops from another, and
little care for or love to each other is to be found among them. The apostle saw good reason to join
both these in one exhortation: ‘Let us consider one another to provoke unto
love and to good works: not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together,’ Heb. 10:24, 25. As if he had said, If you cannot agree
to worship God one with another, you will have little love one for
another. When the Jews’ staff of
‘beauty’ was cut asunder, the staff of ‘bands’ did not last long unbroken, Zech. 11:10. Religion hath its name â religando
—from binding back; it is a strong binder. Break the beautified order of church communion, and a people
will soon fall all to pieces. It
is observable how endearing conversation and communion is in things of an
inferior nature. Scholars that go
to school together, those that board in the same house, collactanei
—that suck the same milk, twins that lie together in the same belly, they have
a mutual endearment of affection each to another. How influential then must church communion needs be where
all these meet? —when they shall consider they go to the same public school of
the ministry, sit at the same table of the sacrament, suck the same breasts of
the ordinances, and lie together in the bosom, yea womb, of the same
church. This was admirably seen in
the primitive Christians, who, by fellowship in ordinances, were inspired with
such a wonderful love to one another, that they could hardly find their hearts
in their own breasts: ‘All that believed were together, and had all things
common; and continuing with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from
house to house, did eat their meat with gladness and singleness of heart,’ Acts 2:44, 46. But when a breach was made in the
church’s communion, then love caught her cold, and grew upon Christians as
divisions increased. Now one would
think the cause of our disease, being so easily known, the cure should not be
so hard, as, alas! at this day we find it.
(3.)
For the saints’ safety and defence against their enemies. Paul rejoiced at the order and steadfastness
of the Colossian saints, Col.
2:5. Order is a
military word, and denotes cohortem ordine apto conglobatam—an army
compact, and cast into a fit order that every part is helpful to each other for
its defence. And such an army are
the saints when they stand in communion together according to divine rule. Our blessed Saviour, when departing
from earth to heaven, what course took he to leave his disciples in a defensive
posture after he was gone? Doth he
send them home to look every one to himself? No, but to Jerusalem, there to stand as it were in a body by
joint communion, Acts
1. The drop
is safe in the river, lost when severed from it; the soldier safe when marching
with the army, but snapped when he straggles from it. Cain, looking upon himself as an excommunicated
person from the church of God, expected some great evil, as well he might,
would befall him. Therefore the gracious soul, meant by the spouse, is brought
in asking where the assembly of the faithful is, that joining herself to it she
may be protected in a rime of danger: ‘Tell me, O thou whom my soul loveth,
where thou feedest, where thou makest thy flock to rest at noon: for why should
I be as one that turneth aside by the flocks of thy companions?’ Song 1:7.
(4.)
Because of the great delight he takes in the joint prayers and praises of
his people. We need not
detract from the excellency of private devotions, to magnify the public prayers
of the church. Both are necessary,
and highly pleasing to God. Yet it
is no wrong to the private devotions of a particular saint, to give the
precedency to the public prayers of the church. God himself tells us he ‘loveth the gates of Zion more than
all the dwellings of Jacob,’ Ps. 87:2. No doubt the prayers which the
faithful put up to heaven from under their private roofs were very acceptable
unto him; but, if a saint's single voice in prayer be so sweet to God's ear,
much more the church choir—his saints' prayers in consort together. A father is glad to see any one of his
children, and makes him welcome when he visits him, but much more when they
come together: the greatest feast is when they all meet at his house. The public praises of the church are
the emblem of heaven itself, where all the angels and saints make but one
consort. There is a wonderful
prevalency in the joint prayers of his people. When Peter was in prison, the church meets and prays him out
of his enemies’ hands. A prince
will grant a petition subscribed by the hands of a whole city, which may be he
would not at the request of a private subject, and yet love him well too. There is an especial promise to public
prayer, Matt.
18:20: ‘Where two or three are gathered together in my name,
there am I in the midst of them.’ Non
dicit ero, non enim tardat vel cunctatur, sed sum jam illic, invenior præsens
gratia et favore singulari, eo quod summopere me delectet hujusmodi concordia—he
doth not say, I will, for he makes no delay or demur upon the business: but I
am there—let them come as soon as they will—present by my special favour and
grace, because this concord in prayer highly pleaseth me. It is the gloss of Lucas Brugens upon
the place.
4.
I come to answer a question or two concerning public prayer.
(1.)
The first question is, Whether it be lawful that the public prayers of the
church be performed in a language not understood by the people?
Answer. All the offices of the church, and
duties performed in its worship, are to be done unto edification. This is an apostolical canon. Now, none can be edified by what he
understands not, and therefore it must needs be, as Beza calls the popish Latin
service, ludibrium Dei at hominis—a mocking of God and man, for to
babble such prayers in the church which the people know not what they
mean. ‘If I pray,’ saith the
apostle, ‘in an unknown tongue, my spirit prayeth, but my understanding is
unfruitful,’ I
Cor. 14:14.
He means, the congregation are not the wiser for his understanding the
prayer he puts up, except he could make them understand it also. We can no more be edified by another’s
intellect than be saved by another’s faith. When God intended to defeat that bold attempt of those sons
of pride who would needs build a tower that should vie with the heavens for
height, he did no more but confound their languages that they might not
understand one another’s speech, and it was done. Presently their work ceased. And as they could not build, so neither can he edify the
people that understands not his speech in prayer. A dumb minister may serve the people’s turn as well as he
who by his speech is a barbarian to them.
For the minister’s voice is necessary in his public administrations, as
Augustine saith, significandæ mentis suæ causâ, non ut Deus sed ut homines
audiant, &c., —to signify his meaning, not that God may hear, for he
hears those prayers which the tongue is not employed to express, but that the
people may hear, and so join their votes with his to God. As the minister is to pray for them, so
they to pray with him; which they are to testify by their hearty amen at the
close. But this they cannot do, if
we believe St. Paul, ‘How shall he that occupieth the room of the unlearned say
amen at thy giving of thanks, seeing he understandeth not what thou sayest?’ I Cor. 14:16. ‘The heart of the wise teacheth his
mouth,’ saith Solomon, Prov.
16:23; that is, he will not, as we say, suffer his tongue to
run before his wit, but know what he shall speak before he sends his tongue on
his errand. And surely, above all
this, wisdom is to be shown in our prayers, wherein we speak not to man but
God. To say amen to that prayer
which we understand not—what is it but to offer the sacrifice of fools? Holy matter in prayer is the incense to
be offered, the tongue is the censer; but the affections of the devout soul
bring the fire to the incense before it can ascend as a sweet perfume into the
nostrils of God. Now, if the intellect
want light to understand what the matter of the prayer is, the affections must
either be cold or wild; and wild fire is unfit to offer up the incense of
prayer with. It is not enough that
the praying soul be touched with some devout affections, but that these
affections be suitable to the matter of the prayer, yea, arise from the sense
it hath thereof.
(2.)
The second question is, Whether a set form of prayer be lawful to be used in
the church?
If
it be unlawful, it is because, by the use of a set form in prayer, some command
of God is transgressed; for where there is no law there is no transgression.
Now,
it will trouble those who decry all set forms —how holy soever the matter of
them be—to show any command upon Scripture record that forbids the praying by a
set form, or that disallows its use either in express terms or by necessary
consequence. It will be granted,
yea must, that the Scripture is a perfect rule in this particular duty of God’s
worship, as well as in other. But
among all the precepts and rules in the book of God, we find none that commands
we should pray by a conceived form, and not by a set form. We are commanded who to pray to, to
God, and none other, Ps.
44:20; in whose name we are to pray, I Tim. 2:5; Eph. 5:20;
we are bound up to the matter of our prayer, what we are to ask, I John 5:14;
and lastly, in what manner we are to pray—we must pray ‘with understanding,’ John 4:22; I Cor.
14:16; Heb. 11:6; ‘in faith,’ James 1:6; Heb. 11:4,
with sincere fervency, Jer.
29:12; in a word, which comprehends all in one, we are to pray
‘in the Spirit,’ Eph.
6:18; in the Holy Ghost,’ Jude 20. Now he that can do all this need not
fear but he prays lawfully, and consequently acceptably. And we confess this may be done by one
that prayeth with a set form, or else we must very boldly charge many eminent
saints in scripture for praying unlawfully. Who dares say that Solomon praised God unlawfully when he
used the very form which David his father had penned? or, that Moses did not
pray in the Spirit, because he prayed in a constant form at the setting forward
of the ark, and at its being set down again? Thus you have seen what God hath prescribed to our praying
acceptably; and if it had been of such dangerous consequence to have prayed by
a set form, as to make our prayers abominable, would God have omitted to warn
his people of it, especially when he foresaw that his churches generally in
their assemblies would make use of them, as they have done for thirteen or
fourteen hundred years? But may we not rather, yea undoubtedly we ought to
conclude, that seeing the Lord in his word descends not to prescribe what the
outward frame and order of our words in prayer should be, whether conceived ex
tempore, or cast into a form beforehand—only gives general rules that all
things should be done decently, that we be not rash with our mouth, or our
heart hasty to utter anything before God, and such like that are applicable to
both—I say we should conclude both are lawful and warrantable, the Scripture
having determined neither the one way nor the other. And therefore to put religion in one, so as to condemn the
other as unlawful, looks—as a learned holy pen hath it—too like superstition,
seeing God himself hath laid no bond upon the conscience either way.
As
for the excellency of conceived prayer, wherein the devout Christian, out of
the abundance of his heart, pours out his requests to God, none but a profane
spirit dares open his mouth against it.
But is there no way to magnify the excellency of that but by vilifying
and imputing sin to the other?
Alas! the evil is not in a form, but in formality; and that is a disease
that may be found in him that prays with a conceived prayer. A man may pray without a form and yet
not pray without formality. Though
I confess he that binds himself constantly to a set form—especially in his
private addresses—seems to me to be more in danger of the two, to fall under
the power of that lazy distemper.
But to hasten the despatch of this question—for I intend not a full
discourse of this point, but would top a few heads only, which you may find
more largely insisted on in many worthy treatises on this subject—I would
desire those that scruple the lawfulness of all set forms, to look wishly upon
those set forms of blessing, prayers, and thanksgiving that are upon scripture
record, and were used by the servants of God with his approbation, and then
consider whether God would prescribe or accept what is unlawful. The priests had a form of blessing the
people, Num.
6:24. Moses
used, as I hinted, a form of prayer at the remove of the ark, ‘Rise up, Lord,
and let thine enemies be scattered; and let them that hate thee flee before
thee;’ and when it was set down another form, ‘Return, O Lord, unto the many
thousands of Israel,’ Num.
10:36, which very form was continued and used by David, Ps. 68:1. Asaph and his brethren had set forms of
thanksgiving given them to use in their public service, ‘Then on that day David
delivered first this psalm to thank the Lord into the hand of Asaph and his
brethren,’ I
Chr. 16:7.
This was the first appointed to be sung in the public service; the
several parts thereof were afterwards much enlarged, as you may see by
comparing Ps. 105 with the former part of the song in the place fore‑quoted,
and Ps. 96, with the latter part of it.
At the dedication of the temple, Solomon used the very form of words in
praising God which his father had penned, II Chr. 7:6. Good Hezekiah commands the Levites ‘to
sing praise unto the Lord with the words of David,’ II Chr. 29:30. This holy man no doubt was able to have
poured forth extemporary praises, as it is thought he did in that prayer which
he on the sudden, put up on the occasion of that railing letter sent him, II Kings 19:14;
yet did not think it unlawful to use a form in his public administration. Yea, our blessed Saviour—an instance beyond
all instances—both gave a form of prayer to his disciples, and himself
disdained not to pray three several times one after another the very same form
of words, ‘He left them, and went away again, and prayed the third time, saying
the same words,’ Matt.
26:44. And that
hymn which he sang with his disciples is conceived by the learned to be that
portion of psalms which the Jews used at the celebration of the passover. (See Beza and Gerhard, Harmo, in locum.)
5.
I come now to the fifth thing propounded in prosecution of this head of public
prayer, and that is some applicatory improvement of this head.
(1.)
This shows what reason the people of God, wherever they live, have to pray
for good magistrates, especially kings and princes. Regna sunt hospitia ecclesiæ—as the inn is to the
traveller, so kingdoms are to the church in its pilgrimage here on earth. As they are, such is its usage in the
world, and entertainment that it finds.
‘Pray for kings,’ saith the apostle, ‘and all in authority; that we may
lead quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty,’ I Tim. 2:2.
By godliness he means in an especial manner the free profession of the truth
and public exercise of God’s pure worship. No magistrate may hinder the saints living godly as to the
embracing of the truth in their hearts and secret performance of prayer. Daniel would and could pray, do
Nebuchadnezzar his worst. But princes carry the keys of the church doors at
their girdles, and an shut or open them.
When faithful magistrates sway the sceptre, then the ways of Zion are
easy and open. When enemies to the ways and worship of God bear rule, then they
mourn; church doors are shut and prison doors opened to the servants of Christ. Then the woman flees into the wilderness,
and the church into private chambers, as we find in the apostles’ days, when
the church was met with the door shut to pray for Peter. O, pray for kings and princes; for, as
they carry the keys of the church doors, so God carries the key that opens the
doors of their hearts at his pleasure.
(2.)
It reproves those that turn their backs off the public worship. Now they are of two sorts—the profane
atheist, the scrupulous separatist.
(a)
The irreligious atheist—such who, out of a profane spirit, turn their
back off the public worship of God.
The Jews have a saying of one of their rabbis much in their mouths, quisquis
incolit civitatem in quâ extat synagoga, et inibi non pecatur, is est qui
meritò dicitur vicinus malus—he that dwells in a city where there is a
synagogue, and comes not to prayers there, he is a person that deserves the
name of a bad neighbour. How many
bad neighbours do we, alas! live among, who are seldom seen in the public assembly
from one end of the year to the other?
Many live as if they had rent the bond that was sealed at their baptism,
and renounced all homage to their Maker, and would tell the world they owe him
no worship. Worse brutes these are than the hog in their sty, or horse in their
stable. They were made for our
use, and accordingly serve us. Man
was intended for the service of his Maker—a creature made for religion —by
which some would define and distinguish the human nature from that of brutes,
rather than by his rational faculty.
Indeed, in some brutes there is a sagacity that looks something like
man’s discoursive faculty. But
religion is a thing their nature is wholly incapable of, and therefore nothing
makes man so truly a brute as irreligion.
The Jewish Talmud propounds this question, Why God made man vesperâ
Sabbathi?—on the evening before the Sabbath? and gives this as one reason, ut
protinus intraret in præceptum—that is, God made man on the evening just
before the Sabbath, that he might forthwith enter upon the observation of the
command to sanctify the Sabbath, and begin his life as it were with the worship
of God, which is the chief end why it was given him. May we not therefore
wonder at the patience of God in suffering these ungodly wretches to live, that
by casting this horrid contempt upon his worship, walk contrary to the very end
of their creation? If the bells
which call us to the worship of God were to give them notice of a wrestling,
foot‑ball, or drunken wake, O how soon should we have them flock together! But prayers and sermons they care not
for. What shall we impute this
irreligion and atheism of multitudes among us to? Surely it proceeds from a criminous conscience. It is said of Cain, ‘He went out from
the presence of the Lord,’ Gen. 4:16; that is, say some interpreters,
from the place where God had his church and worship, there God is especially
present.
Guilt
indeed makes men afraid of God.
This makes them {do} what they can to wear off the thoughts of a Deity
that are so troublesome to their flagitious consciences. Now, to do this, they have no other way
than to shun those duties which will bring God and their sins to their
remembrance. Herod was soon
persuaded to cut off that head whose tongue was so bold to tell him his faults;
and profane hearts are easily drawn to cast off those duties which will gall
and rub hard upon their sore consciences.
But that man is in a miserable case that knows no way to get ease but by
throwing away the plaster that must heal his wound. Ah, poor wretches! this will not serve your turn. What though the prisoner stops his
ears, and will not hear the judge pronounce the sentence against him, will that
save him from the gallows? Surely no; but rather procure his being sent thither
the sooner for his contempt of the court, who, had he carried himself better,
and humbly begged his life at the judge's hand, might possibly have got the
sentence reversed. Whether sinners
will hear the word or no, come to his worship or no, God will proceed in his
work. Flouting against God, and
turning thy back on his worship, is not the way to prevent but hasten divine
vengeance. How much better were it
to make thy humble supplication to thy judge, and wait at the posts of
wisdom! While men, though bad,
wait on ordinances, there is hope, for they are under the means. But when they
cast them off, then their ruin hastens.
(b)
The scrupulous separatist—such who do not absent from the public worship
out of a profane atheistical spirit, as the former, but from scruples whether
they may lawfully be present at the prayers there put up, because there are
some maladministrations in the performance of it, or at least {that} which
they think to be such. At these
they are distasted, and so withdraw.
May be it is because the duty of prayer is performed with a set form,
which they conceive unlawful.
This I shall waive, having spoken already to it. Or, may be it is not a form, but some
passages in the form used, that offends them, and therefore they dare not be
present. So that the question will
be—
Question. Whether it be lawful to be present at
that service, or those prayers in the congregation, that have something faulty
in them?
To
the answering of this question, we must first distinguish of faults, all are
not of a size. There are
faults in a matter, and faults in the form and method, of a prayer. And faults in the matter may be either
fundamental or of a less nature—such as are not fundamental or bordering
thereupon; and those less faults may be generally dispersed through the prayer,
that it is soured throughout with them, or only in some particular passages.
Again,
we must distinguish between approving of the faults, defects, and
corruptions that are in a prayer, and being present at the service of God where
some things are done faultily.
Now I answer, that it is lawful for a Christian to be present at those
prayers wherein some things may be supposed to be faulty for outward form, yea,
and also in matter, in things not fundamental nor bordering thereupon, and
these not dispersed through the whole body of the prayers, but in some passages
only. We may be present where God
is present by his grace and favour.
We may follow the Lamb safely wherever he goes. Now God doth not, for corruptions of
doctrine that are remote from the foundation, or of worship in things ritual
and of an inferior nature, cast off a church, and withdraw his presence from
it; neither ought we. Indeed, if
the foundation of doctrine be destroyed, and the worship becomes idolatrous, in
that case God goes before us, and calls all the faithful after him to come out
from the communion of such a church.
But, where corruptions in a church are of the former nature, and such
laws be not imposed by the church in their communion with it as being a necessity
of approving things unlawful, the sin is not in holding communion with it, but
in withdrawing from it, and that no little one either. Many things must be tolerated for
maintaining peace and unity, and enjoying the worship of God, when it is not in
our power to redress them.
Neither doth our presence at the ordinance carry interpretatively a
consent with it of all that is there done. It is one thing to tolerate and another to approve. Whoever said that all who are present in
an assembly by it show their consent to every impertinent phrase in the
minister’s prayer, corrupt gloss, or false interpretation he makes of any text
quoted in his sermon? If this were
true, our Saviour led the people into a snare when he bade them beware of the
leaven of the Pharisees’ doctrine, yet bade them hear them preach, Matt. 23:3.
(3.)
Of exhortation.
(a)
Make conscience of joining with the church in her public worship. Do not think thou art left to thy
liberty whether thou wilt or not, but bind it upon thy conscience as a duty,
for so indeed it is. You think it
is the minister’s duty to dispense ordinances. Surely then it is your duty to
attend on them. He might as well
pray for you at home as come to church and not find his people there. Is there a woe to him if he doth not
provide food for your souls, and none for you if you come not to partake of
it? How can you reasonably think
so? And when you come, think not
you are time enough there if you get to the sermon, though you miss the
prayers, which should prepare you for the word and sanctify the word to
you. It is not the way to profit
by one ordinance to neglect another. The minister may preach, but God must
teach thee to profit. If God opens not thy understanding to conceive of, and
thy heart to conceive by, the word thou hearest, no fruit will come of it. Now prayer is the key to open God’s
heart, as his Spirit the key to open thine.
(b)
Take heed how thou comest to, and behavest thyself, as in other parts of public
worship, so especially in prayer.
[1.] How thou comest to public worship: take heed thou comest
not in thy filthiness, I mean, that thou regard not iniquity in thy heart.
Wash and then pray. So David
resolves, “I will wash mine hands in innocency: so will I compass thine
altar,’—alluding to the priests, that went to the laver before they approached
with their sacrifice to the altar, Ex. 40. It was counted a great presumption in
one that durst come near his prince with a stinking breath. O what a bold act then is it to draw
near to the great God with any sin upon thee! This is sure to make thy breath in prayer stink, and render
thee for it abominable to him.
[2.] How thou behavest thyself in the duty; be sure it be with
a holy reverence—with an inward reverence and also an outward reverence.
We
are to believe in the duty of worship with an inward reverence. God is called ‘the Fear’ of his people,
because he is reverenced by them in their approaches to him. ‘Fear’ is put for the whole worship of
God, because no part of it is to be done without a holy trembling. This, as the quaver to the music, gives
a grace and acceptableness both to our prayers and praises also: ‘Serve the
Lord with fear, rejoice with trembling.’
Now, to fill thee with awful[3]
thoughts of God, labour to set up a right notion of God in thy mind as
infinitely glorious in holiness, majesty, and power. Irreverence is the product of low thoughts we have of a
person, which makes it impossible that an ignorant soul should truly reverence
God —how humble soever his outward posture is—because he knows not what God
is. A prince in a disguise is not
known, and therefore not entertained, when he comes, as when he appears in his
royal majesty. The saints use to
awe their hearts into a reverence of God in prayer by revolving his titles of
majesty in their thoughts, Ps. 89.6, 7.
We
are to believe in the duty of worship with an outward reverence. God is a Spirit, yet will have the
reverence of our body as well as spirit, for both are his, and especially in
the public. A prince would not
like a rude behaviour from his servant in his bedchamber where none besides
himself is witness to it, but much less will he bear it in his presence‑chamber,
as he sits on his throne before many of his subjects. Now, the fittest gesture
of body in public prayer to express our reverence is kneeling: ‘Come, let us
worship and bow down: let us kneel before the Lord,’ Ps. 95:6.
So Paul, taking his leave of the elders of Ephesus, kneeled and prayed with
them all, Acts
20:36. And all
the Christians at Tyrus, accompanying Paul to the ship with their wives and
children, ‘kneeled down on the shore, and prayed,’ Acts 21:5. Where that cannot be done, they should
stand—if debility of nature hinder not.
As for sitting we do not find it commended in Scripture as a praying
posture; neither have the churches of Christ judged it so: sedentem orare
extra disciplinam est, saith Tertullian—to pray sitting is not according to
the church’s order. As for that, II Sam. 7:18,
David ‘sat before the Lord,’ it may be read, he abode or stayed before the
Lord. So the word in other places
is taken; as
Gen. 27:44; Lev. 14:8; I Sam. 1:22.
Again,
in the duty of worship we are to exercise attention and intention of mind,
that we may go along with the minister by our devout affections, and witness
our consent to the prayers put up with our hearty amen at the end of them, I Chr. 16:36; Neh.
8:6; I Cor. 14:16.
Else indeed, we are as a broken string in a consort, that speaks not
with the rest, and thereby discomposeth the harmony.
[The several kinds of
prayer distinguished
as ordinary or extraordinary.]
Fourth Distinction. Solitary and social, private and
public prayer, are either ordinary or extraordinary. For the development of this distinction
I shall endeavour to answer these five questions: —First. What
extraordinary prayer is. Second.
By whom it is to be performed. Third.
What are the special seasons wherein we are to take it up. Fourth. Why extraordinary prayer
is superadded to ordinary. Fifth. What counsel or direction may be given
for the acceptable and successful performance of this duty.
[The nature of extraordinary prayer.]
Question
First. What is extraordinary prayer?
Answer.
Prayer may be called extraordinary in a double respect: 1. In regard of the
time set apart for the performance of it.
2. In regard of its adjunct.
1.
Prayer may be called extraordinary in regard of the time set apart for the
performance of it. Then it is
extraordinary when some more than ordinary portion of time is set apart and
devoted to this work. Thus we find Jacob wrestling till break of day, Gen. 32,
and Joshua with the elders of Israel till eventide; the one probably spending
the night, the other the day, in this duty. And Israel, in their war with Benjamin, ‘wept and sat there
before the Lord that day till even,’ Judges 20:26. We find Daniel many days together in
prayer, Dan.
10:12.
2.
Prayer may be called extraordinary in regard of its adjunct. Then prayer is extraordinary when
fasting is joined to the duty of prayer.
Now, fasting is a religious abstinence, whereby we forbear the use of all
earthly comforts in the time set apart for this duty —so far as necessity and
decency will permit—the more to afflict our souls and enforce our prayers; as,
(1.)
A forbearing of food, whether meat or drink, Est. 4:16; Jonah 3:7. From this the whole action is called a fast,
which imports not a sober use of food—for this we are at all times bound to
observe—but a total abstinence, if necessity of nature, through some debility
and infirmity, doth not require otherwise. For, in this case, the less duty must yield to the greater
—the end of fasting being to help us in prayer, which it doth not when nature
faints under it; for the soul cannot fly if the wings of our bodily spirits
flag.
(2.)
All costly apparel and ornaments of the body. Gaudy rich clothes on a fast‑day do no better than a light
trimming on a mourning suit: ‘They mourned: and no man did put on him his ornaments,’
Ex. 33:4. And this was by God’s own command;
‘for the Lord had said unto Moses, Say unto the children of Israel,’ that they
‘put off their ornaments,’ ver. 5. In a word, all carnal mirth, music, perfumes, and whatever
might recreate and delight the senses, are to be forborne upon this
extraordinary occasion. See Dan. 6:18; 10:2, 3. For, though abstinence from food, with
the other severities imposed on the outward man, be not in themselves acts of
worship, nor intrinsical to the nature of prayer, yet are they required in the
extraordinary performance of this duty by way of adjuvancy to it, and they have
a reference to spiritual ends.
(a)
By this abstinence we acknowledge our unworthiness to enjoy such comforts,
and that God may justly take from us what for a time we voluntarily deny
ourselves of.
(b)
We express by our outward abstinence and fasting, the strength and vehemency
of those inward affections which are to be exerted in extraordinary prayer. Men use to signify the violent passions
of their soul by forbearing the repast and delights of the body. Is it a passion of grief one is
oppressed with? you will see him oft forsake his food. Thus David: ‘My heart is smitten, and
withered like grass; so that I forget to eat my bread,’ Ps. 102:4. Is it fear that possesseth the heart
with the apprehension of some great danger impending and approaching? you will
have such a one refuse his wonted repast.
So the mariners did in the sea‑storm, Acts 27. Is it anger that vexeth a man? Ahab was deep in his passion upon the
denial of Naboth’s vineyard, and he throws himself on his bed and will not eat,
I Kings
21. Is it
desire of compassing any great design that the head and heart is taken up and
transported with? such a one will not allow himself time for his meal. ‘Cursed be the man,’ saith Saul, ‘that
eateth any food until evening, that I may be avenged on mine enemies,’ I Sam. 14:24. We find the smith, in the prophet, so
earnest in his idolatrous work, that he pincheth himself with hunger, and he
will not eat though his strength faileth, nor drink though he be ready to
faint, Isa.
44:12. Now, in
extraordinary prayer the Christian is to have all these affections in a
spiritual and holy manner wound up to the highest key possible. He is to have a deep sorrow for sin,
fear and trembling at the judgments of God feared to come for them; a holy
anger and indignation against sin, with a vehement desire to be revenged on it
for the dishonour it hath cast upon God; and, in a word, a longing desire to
make his peace with God and recover his favour, which sin hath unhappily deprived
him of. Now, because the excess of
natural passions discovers itself this way, even to afflict their very bodies,
and makes them deny themselves that which nature most craves, therefore God
will have his people in their extraordinary humiliations do the same, that
nature may not put grace to shame.
(c)
By this abstinence, especially from food, we tame and subdue our wanton flesh,
and so come to have a greater advantage for mortifying those sensual lusts
that receive the fuel which feeds and inflames them from the flesh. A full body is a mellow soil for such
lusts to grow rank in. Cum
carne nutriuntur vita carnis—the lusts of the flesh are nourished when the
body is pampered. If the body be
kept high, carnal lusts will not easily be kept low. What else made Paul to beat down his body by fasting and
watching, in which he was often, but that he might have the fuller blow at
those lusts that received strength from it? Nostrum est lasciviens jumentum frænis inediæ subjugare,
ut sessorem Spiritum sanctum moderato et composito portet incessu (Hieronymus, Epist.
9)—indeed a pampered horse is most like to cast his rider;
and the Holy Spirit, using the body as well as soul in the work, this bridle of
fasting is of excellent use to curb it.
(d)
This abstinence from food is required to sharpen our spirits, and enliven
the powers of the soul in this duty, which are pressed down and thickened,
as I may so say, with the charge of the stomach. A full body makes a heavy eye
and drowsy spirits; and what can then be expected but yawning prayers, especially
when we are to continue longer than ordinary at the work?
[By whom extraordinary prayer is to be
performed.]
Question
Second. Who are they that are called
to the practice of this duty of extraordinary prayer?
Answer. The command comprehends all that by age
are enabled to understand the nature of this duty when any extraordinary
occasion occurs for the performance of the same. We find it required of a church and nation. It is the magistrate’s duty, when there
is a national cause, to call his subjects to the public practice of this duty, Joel 2:15; Neh. 9:1;
and he that refuseth his call thereunto makes himself an offender both to God
and man, Lev.
23:29. It
reacheth to private families.
Esther and her maidens keep a religious fast together Est. 4:16. Yea, it is a duty bound upon single
persons, and reacheth to the secret closet, ‘But thou, when thou fastest,
anoint thine head, and wash thy face; that thou appear not unto men to fast,
but unto thy Father which is in secret,’ Matt. 6:17, 18. The circumstances of the place show it
is meant of a secret fast in the closet.
We have them all together in one place, ‘The land shall mourn;’ there is
a national fast: every family apart, the family of the house of David, and the
house of Nathan apart,’ &c.; there is domestical: ‘and their wives apart;’ Zech. 12:12;
there is a personal secret fast in the closet.
Objection. But is not this extraordinary prayer
and fasting too austere and rigid a duty for gospel times? Where doth Christ command his people in
gospel times to macerate their bodies with such severities as these? Joy and praise better becomes the freedom
and liberty of the gospel.
Objection
met. Such wild stuff hath been
vented by some in our late loose times.
These are a new sort of saints, which the world hath hardly been acquainted
with before these unhappy days of ours; they would be in heaven before their
time, and leave no tears on their cheeks for Christ at death to wipe away. If any of these could live without sin
and suffering they would have some colour for their plea; though even then,
being yet ‘in the body,’ they should owe those tears to their brethren which
they need not drop for themselves.
The apostle I am sure bids us ‘weep with those that weep,’ and mourn
with those that mourn, Rom.
12:15. Thus did
Nehemiah fast for his afflicted brethren in Jerusalem when his own affairs were
prosperous enough—being surrounded with the beams of the Persian emperor’s
favour. But there are none in
mortal flesh free from sin or exempted from sorrow; and therefore a mourning
habit may sometimes become the best of saints on earth. ‘They that wear soft clothing are in
kings’ houses,’ Matt.
11:8.
Glorified
saints, who dwell in the King of heaven’s court, are always clad with joy, but
this on earth is the saint’s holiday suit. As he hath now and then his rejoicing days, so he wants not
his days for mourning. ‘The days
will come,’ saith our Saviour of his disciples, ‘when the bridegroom shall be
taken from them, and then shall they fast,’ Matt. 9:15—and surely they
lived in gospel times. If these
merry professors had been by Paul to see him how he beat down his body and
chastised himself with fasting, they surely would have chid him for his pains,
and thought him ignorant of his Christian liberty. The worst I wish these poor deluded souls is, that they who
are so much for joy here meet with no mourning in another world. It is but an ill sign when men quarrel
with a duty for its strictness, and slip the yoke off their necks because the
wanton flesh saith it is uneasy.
These are like Ephraim, whom the prophet compares to a heifer ‘that
loveth to tread out the corn,’ but not to plough. That is hard hungry work. A thanksgiving day, that brings a feast with it. This they like, and are content it
should pass for a gospel duty. But
a day of prayer and fasting, wherein they are to pinch their carcass a little,
this will not go down. But is
there no feast except that it goes down the throat and fills the belly?
Certainly this blessed duty deserves not the ill name it hath given unto it by
men of sensual spirits. It is
indeed to carnal wretches a heavy yoke, a tedious work. As the milk kine carried the ark went
bellowing for their calves that were taken from them, so do these in a fast‑day
after their employments and enjoyments of the world, from which they are for
that time restrained. Alas! poor
creatures, as the ark was nothing but a burden to the kine, so the duty is no
other to them. But the true saint,
that knows what ease his poor heart feels in exonerating his conscience by
humble confession of sin, what sweet satisfaction his soul meets with in
communion with God, and what faith and inward peace he carries away with him
from the duty, will give you another character of this ordinance than so. He will tell you he had rather be
fasting with God that feasting at a king’s table. What saint had not rather be fasting on the mount with
Moses, than eating and playing with the carnal Israelites below the hill? Who would not miss a meal for his body,
to satiate his soul with those delights that the presence of God in such an
ordinance affords? Who would not
take pleasure in mourning and weeping for sin, to have the tears he shed dried
up with kisses from his Saviour's mouth?
It is indeed to him that stands sucking of the bush—I mean the external
part of the duty—a dry sapless service; but to him that is taken into the wine‑cellar,
and there drinks full draughts of the love of God, it is a most sweet
soul-ravishing ordinance. The lower
exterior part of the duty, like the bottom of Jacob’s ladder, stands on the
earth, and leaves the creature on the earth also where it found him—for ‘bodily
exercise profiteth little;’ but the top and spiritual part of it reacheth to
heaven, and mounts the gracious soul thither, even unto bosom communion with
God. There is as much difference
between a saint and a hypocrite or carnal soul in this duty, as there is
between a thief locked up with his keeper in a prison, and a scholar locking up
himself in his study to read some book that he is greatly delighted with; to
the one it is a grievous burden, to the other an incomparable pleasure.
[The seasons for extraordinary
prayer.]
Question
Third. What are the special seasons wherein the Christian is to take up
the practice of this duty of extraordinary prayer?
Answer.
I answer, in general, any extraordinary occasion, as it emergeth in the
course of providence in the Christian’s life. This kind of prayer is not of constant use, as ordinary
prayer is; this is food, that physic.
And it were absurd to be taking physic all the year long; which shows
the folly of the Papists in their fasts, which are holden at set times, whether
affairs be prosperous or not prosperous, ordinary or extraordinary. I would not be thought here to speak
against set fasts; we have had our monthly fasts, but the extraordinary cause
for which they were appointed continued.
But to instance in a few special seasons wherein the Christian hath a
fit occasion to make use of this extraordinary duty.
Season
1. When the Christian is to set upon any more than ordinary enterprise,
wherein he may meet with great difficulty or danger, and the issue whereof will
be a great mercy or affliction.
Now is a fit season to take up this extraordinary duty, as an excellent
means whereby all mountains of intervening difficulties may be levelled, and
his undertaking be crowned with happy success. Thus Esther, before she adventured upon that heroic attempt
of going uncalled into the king’s presence to beg the life of her people,
given to the butchery and slaughter by the king’s seal at bloody Haman’s
request—an action that carried death and danger on the face of it—she first
goes to God by fasting and prayer, and gets all the auxiliary forces of others’
prayers she can, and, attended with this convoy, she, against the Persian law,
presents herself before the king, and speeds; for instead of losing her own
life, which was forfeited by the law for this attempt, she reverseth the unjust
judgment passed upon the life of her people, and recoils it upon the head of
him that laid the plot. Prayer had
so unlocked and opened the king’s heart that she hath but what she asks at the
king’s hands.
No
such engine to facilitate and carry on any great design to its desired end as
this of extraordinary prayer. Who
could have believed that Ezra and his company of pilgrims should all get safe
from Babylon to Jerusalem, being so generally hated everywhere? Now what
stratagem doth this leader of his people use to secure his passage and escape
the fury of his enemies? Doth he
desire a band of the Persian king to be their guard? No; he hath gloried so much of that God they served, that he
is ashamed the king should think now he was not willing to cast himself upon
his protection; but he goes to fasting and prayer, Ezra 8:21.
Then they take their march, and find the way all along cleared before them, ver. 31. Our blessed Saviour hath sanctified
this duty for this end in his own holy example, who, when to choose and send
forth the twelve to preach the gospel, that they may speed the better in their
embassy, he sends them forth under the conduct of prayer, and to that end
spends the preceding night himself in prayer, Luke 6:12, 13. Now, though every Christian is not called
forth, or likely to be in all his life, to such great and public enterprises as
some others are, yet if he will observe the several passages of his more
private employments and turns of providence in the course of his life, he shall
find many such actions occur as give him a fair hint to make use of this
duty. Haply thou art to enter upon
a calling, or, in the calling thou art, meetest with many difficulties and
temptations. Thou hast a long
journey or dangerous voyage to take; thou hast to do with a subtle potent
adversary, though thy cause be good, yet like to outwitted or overborne. Here is a fair errand put into thy
mouth to go before the Lord for counsel, assistance, and protection. May be thou hast children, and these
are to be disposed of into callings or new relations; and is not this a great
undertaking wherein tou hast a great adventure going in their bottom? Will not the issue that depends on this
great change of their condition lay the foundation of much grief or joy to
thee? Yet how slighty are many
herein, as if it were of little more importance to marry a child than it is to
put off a horse or cow at a fair!
Few matches are, alas! thus made in heaven—I mean by solemn prayer
engaging God in the business. Abraham’s servant puts many parents to shame—he
hard at prayer for success in his journey when sent to take a wife for his
master’s son, and not they for their children. But I wonder not that they who propound low and carnal ends
to themselves in such enterprises, should forget by prayer both to ask his
counsel in the match, or invite him to offer his blessing at the wedding.
Season
2. When the Christian is in the dark concerning any truth, and cannot
satisfy his judgment by humble and diligent inquiry he hath made after it.
Now is a fit season to take up this extraordinary duty as an excellent means to
be led into the knowledge of the mind of God therein. Prayer is the proper key to unlock God’s heart, and he alone
can open our understandings and satisfy our scruples. This course Daniel took, and got more
understanding by his fasting and prayer than by all his study, for a messenger
is sent from heaven to ‘give him skill and understanding,’ Dan. 9:20-23, and
again, ch. 10:12.
In both he sped. And the
angel is careful to let him know that it was his extraordinary praying that
procured this extraordinary favour, and also how acceptable his motion was, by
the easy access and quick despatch it found with God; and therefore tells him
in both, that he had no sooner set upon this course of afflicting his soul but
he was heard, and the messenger ordered to give him an answer to his
prayer. Surely prayer hath not
lost its credit in heaven, but is now as welcome to God as ever; and though an
angel be not the messenger to bring the saint an answer, yet he shall have it
by as sure and more honourable hand—even the Holy Spirit, whose office is to
lead his people into truth. Thus
Cornelius, Acts
10, came to be instructed in the mystery of the gospel,
upon his extraordinary seeking of God by fasting and prayer. It is very probable this good man in
those divided times, wherein he saw many zealous for the old way of Jewish
worship, and others preach up an new way, stood in some doubt what to do; and
this might stir him up by fasting and prayer to ask counsel, and beg further
light, of God, to direct him in the way of truth, as may seem by the tenor of
the message sent him from God in the vision while he was at prayer, which bade
him send to Joppa ‘for one Simon, whose surname is Peter,...and he shall tell
thee what thou oughtest to do,’ ver. 5, 6. And certainly, in our divided times,
wherein there is so much difference in judgment, had there been less wrangling
among ourselves, and more wrestling with God for his teaching Spirit, we had
been in a fairer way to find the door of truth, which so many are yet groping
for. The way of controversies, and
contentious disputes raise this dust, and blow it most into their eyes that
gallop fastest in it, so that they miss the truth, which humble souls find upon
their knees at the throne of grace.
When the apostles were quarrelling, then they got nothing from Christ
but a chiding, Luke
22:24, &c.; but when they were praying together
earnestly, then he sent the Spirit to teach them, Acts 2.
Season
3. When the Christian is under any great affliction. Now is a fit season if he be able for
the work. ‘Is any among you
afflicted? let him pray,’ James
5:13. That is,
let him then be more than ordinary in this duty; for he must, yea will, if a
Christian, pray where he is not afflicted as well as when he is. But the
meaning is, he must now pray after an extraordinary manner; he must now pray
with more vehemency; for, though in all our addresses to God, we are to
express the lively workings of our hearts to him, without which our prayers are
unsavoury (cold prayers ever find cold welcome); yet God expects, and it always
hath been the care of, holy men in their extraordinary applications to this
duty of prayer, to wind up their affections to a pitch higher than ordinary,
having the advantage of some special occasion to help them thereunto. Look upon
them in some great strait and affliction, and you shall find them exceeding
themselves, and put upon them a prince-like spirit. So Jacob behaved himself in prayer, Gen. 32:28. As a prince fighting in the field for
his crown and kingdom, he wrestled with the angel, who was no other than God
himself; that is, he strained as it were, every vein in his heart, and put
forth his whole might in prayer, as a wrestler would do that grapples with a
potent adversary. Moses is so
transported in zeal for Israel, when a dismal cloud of wrath impended them for
their idolatry, that he offers rather to die upon the place, than to go down
the mount and not carry the joyful news of a pardon with him, Ex. 32:32. And Nehemiah, when he had been
afflicting his soul and praying before the Lord, it was with such vehemency
that the anguish of his spirit looked out at his eyes, and left a mark of
sorrow upon his very countenance, which his prince could observe as he waited
on him.
Again,
in affliction we are called to pray, as more intensively, so more extensively;
I mean longer and oftener. Thus I
find that Š6J,<,FJ,D@<
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of our Saviour, rendered by Lucas Brugensis and others, prolixius orabat—he
prayed longer, that is, he spent more time than ordinary in it. Thrice one after another we find him at
it, Matt.
26:44. His agony
was great and the waves of his affliction violent, and therefore he doubles,
yea trebles, his prayer with deep sighs and strong cries to his Father. Nature never strains so to its utmost,
as when it is oppressed; then temples work, lungs heave, and heart pants; so in
affliction the spirit of prayer should be increased and intended.
Season
4. When the Christian is
buffeted with any temptation, or overpowered with a corruption, and cannot,
with the use of ordinary means, quench the one or master and mortify the other. If the short dagger of ordinary prayer
will not reach the heart of a lust, then it is time to draw out this long sword
of extraordinary prayer upon it.
There is a ‘kind’ of devils, our Saviour tells us, that ‘goes not out
but by prayer and fasting,’ Matt. 17:21. You know the occasion of this speech
was that complaint of one concerning his lunatic son, ‘I brought him to thy
disciples and they could not cure him.’
Thus some poor souls complain they have come to the word preached so
long, in their daily prayers begged power over such a lust, resolved against it
many a time, and none of these means could cure it; what can they now do
more? Here thou art told. Bring thy condition to Christ in this
solemn ordinance of prayer and fasting; this hath at last been the happy means
to strengthen many a poor Christian to be avenged on those spiritual enemies
which have outbraved all the former, and like Samson to pull down the devil’s
house upon his head.
Season
5. When sin doth abound
more than ordinary in the times and places we live in. Sinning times have ever been the
saints’ praying times. This sent
Ezra with a heavy heart to confess the sin of his people, and to bewail their
abominations before the Lord, Ezra 9. And Jeremiah tells the wicked rout of his degenerate age
that his ‘should weep in secret places for their pride,’ Jer. 13:17. Indeed sometimes sin comes to such a
height and insolence, that this is almost all the godly can do, to get into a
corner and bewail the general pollutions of the present age; as he told Luther,
abi, frater, in cellam et dic miserere Domine—go, brother, into a cell
and bewail. ‘If the foundations be
destroyed, what can the righteous do?’ Ps. 11:3. Such dismal days of national confusion
our eyes have seen, when foundations of government were destroyed, and all
hurled into a military confusion. When it is thus with a people, what can the
righteous do? Yes, this they may,
and should do, ‘fast and pray.’
There is yet a God in heaven to be sought to, when a people's
deliverance is thrown beyond the help of human policy or power. Now is the fit time to make their
appeal to God, as the words following hint, ‘The Lord is in his holy temple,
the Lord’s throne is in heaven,’ ver. 4; in which words
God is presented sitting in heaven as a temple, for their encouragement, I
conceive, in such a desperate state of affairs, to direct their prayers thither
for deliverance. And certainly this hath been the engine that hath been above
any instrumental to screw up this poor nation again, and set it upon the
foundation of that lawful government from which it was so dangerously slid.
Season
6. To name no more, times of great expectation are times for
extraordinary prayer. When the
people of God have been big with expectation of great mercies approaching, then
have they been more abounding in prayer.
As the cocks crow thickest towards break of day, so the saints, the
nearer they have apprehended the accomplishment of promises made to his church,
the more instant they use to be in prayer. When a woman with child her reckoning is near out, then she
desires her midwife to be at hand. And prayer hath had the name of old for its
excellent usefulness to obstetricate mercies. ‘The children are come to the birth,’ saith good Hezekiah;
and then he desires the help of the prophet’s prayer for the fair delivery of
it: ‘Lift up thy prayer for the remnant that is left,’ Isa. 37:3, 4. When Daniel the prophet had learned by
study that the happy period of the seventy years' captivity, bound upon the
Jews’ neck for their sin, was now at hand, Dan. 9:1, then in an
extraordinary manner he sets himself to pray and afflict his soul before the
Lord. And we have reason to hope
that spiritual Babylon—Rome, I mean—is not long‑lived; it is high time
therefore that the saints should fall more earnestly than ever to dig her grave
for her by their prayers.
[The reasons for extraordinary
prayer.]
Question
Fourth. But why is extraordinary prayer to be superadded by the
Christian to his ordinary exercise of it in his daily course?
Answer
1. Extraordinary prayer is superadded in obedience to the command of God. He commands not only that we should ‘pray
always,’ but ‘with all prayer’ also, and extraordinary prayer is one
kind among the rest. And let none
of us say it is not enough to pray once or twice every day, but we must upon
some occasions devote a whole day also, to the damage of calling and
family? O what niggards would some
be towards God, were they left free to devote what time they thought fit for
his worship? This cavil sounds too
like that of Judas: ‘To what purpose is this waste? For this ointment might have been sold for much, and given
to the poor,’ Matt.
26:8, 9.
‘But this he said, not that he cared for the poor; but because he was a
thief.’ Truly so, when I hear some
carnal wretches cry out against this waste of time in praying and fasting—‘how
much might the improvement of that time, if laid out in their callings, have
advantaged their families, wives, and children’—I am ready to think it is not
because they have such a care of their relations as they pretend (for they who
grudge a day for prayer can throw, some of them, many away at the ale-house or
in idleness), but they carry thievish hearts in their bosoms, which love to rob
God of his due, and care not how little service they put him off with. Is he a loyal subject that pays the
ordinary tribute to his prince, but, if occasion of state requires a subsidy,
refuseth this, or doth it grudgingly?
God’s commands are none of them, no not this which carries some outward
severity on it, so grievous, that any should need to groan or grumble under
them. Those yokes—duties and
commands, I mean—whose outside seem most hard have the softest lining within.
What seem harder than suffering? and yet when are the saints fuller of heaven's
joy? What duty more austere than
this of fasting and afflicting our souls? and yet in the breast of this lion,
that scares sensual wretches, the Christian finds the sweetest honey-comb of
inward comforts. Temple-work is
sure to be well paid if well done; though it be never so little work in his
house, God will not have it done gratis. None shall kindle a fire on his altar
for naught. And therefore he takes
it in great disdain at their hands who durst say, ‘What profit is it that we
have kept his ordinance, and that we have walked mournfully before the Lord of
hosts?’ Mal.
3:14. Whereas
the fault was not in the duty, but in themselves, that they got no more by
it. As if a naughty servant should
bring himself by his riot and excess to poverty, and then give out a hard
master hath undone him.
Answer
2. It is superadded to comport with the providence of God, by a suitable
return of duty to his actings and dispensations towards us. When God is extraordinary in his
providence, he expects his people should be more than ordinary in seeking of
him. What else means that of the prophet? ‘Thus will I do unto thee, O Israel:
and because I will do this unto thee, prepare to meet thy God, O Israel,’ Amos 4:12. Here God alarms them by his
extraordinary proceedings intended against them, to take the hint of this
warning, and apply themselves speedily to the solemn practice of repentance and
humbling their souls, as a suitable posture to meet God in, and keep off the
storm of his wrath now gathering against them. Is it not high time for a nation
to betake them to their defensive arms when a mighty host is marching against
them? So, Isa. 26:20, 21,
‘Come, my people, enter thou into thy chambers, and shut thy doors about thee,’
&c. Here he sends his people
to their chambers and closets, that they may, by afflicting their souls and
fervent prayers, find a hiding in the day of his indignation. And why must they do thus? ‘For behold
the Lord cometh out of his place to punish the inhabitants of the earth for their
iniquity,’ ver.
21. The rising
of God out of his place imports some notable enterprise he is about to do; and
when the master riseth, it is not manners for the servant to sit still, but to
rise also and prepare to follow him where he goes. God takes special notice how we behave ourselves and comport
with is dispensations of judgment or mercy, ‘In that day did the Lord God of
hosts call to weeping, and to mourning;’ Isa. 22:12, that is, he
called them by the voice of his providence as well as his prophets, the nature
of which was such, that had not their lusts bunged up their ears and made them
deaf, they could not but hear and understand that now was the time, if ever,
that God expected to see them in sackcloth and tears humbling their souls
before him. Now see how heinously
he takes their security and profane slighting of his providence, ‘And it was
revealed in mine ears by the Lord of hosts, Surely this iniquity shall not be
purged from you till ye die, saith the Lord of hosts,’ ver. 14. Few sins more provoke God than
this. ‘Because they regard not
the works of the Lord, nor the operation of his hands, he shall destroy them,
and not build them up,’ Ps.
28:5. So, ‘And
thou...O Belshazzar, hast not humbled thine heart, though thou knewest all
this,’ Dan.
5:22. This lost
him his life and kingdom, as the contrary saved Ahab’s for a time, though it
was not so sincere as it ought. A
temporal humiliation got him a temporal benefit.
Answer
3. It is superadded for the great influence that this extraordinary
duty solemnly performed would have upon our whole life and course of godliness. To keep the body healthful requires not
only daily food, but now and the physic also; for in the soundest constitution,
and that advantaged with the best care and temperance, there will, in time,
such a quantity of superfluous humours gather, that nature without help cannot
digest. And truly the temper of
the soul is as infirm and needs as much tending as the body. Ordinary prayer is the saint’s
food. He can as little miss the
constant returns of it as his usual meals. But extraordinary is his physic, to clear and discharge his
soul of those distempers which it contracts, and cannot conquer by the use of
ordinary means; as also to advance and heighten the Christian’s graces unto a
further degree of strength and activity.
As God hath, in his wise providence, ordered one star of great influence
to be at a certain season of the year in conjunction with the sun, for the more
effectual ripening of the harvest in these colder parts of the world; so hath
he, in the same wisdom, appointed for the Christian's spiritual advantage and
help in this cold climate of the world, that this solemn duty should now and
then be taken into conjunction with our ordinary exercise of devotion; for
want of which it is that many ripen slower both in their graces and comforts
than some of their fellow-saints who sit often under the influences of this
powerful quickening ordinance.
[Directions for extraordinary prayer.]
Question
Fifth. What counsel or direction
may be given to the acceptable and successful performance of this solemn duty?
Answer. I come now to shut up my discourse on
this point, in answering this last question. A serious necessary one it is, for indeed it is an edge‑tool
of excellent use, but dangerous in his hand that knows not how to use it. Like some physic, if it doth not purge
it poisons. In the same fat soil
where the corn is best the weeds also are rankest. Neither grace nor sin grow to such a height anywhere as in
those that converse much with this solemn ordinance. And therefore, as they who are in a ship upon a swift stream
had need the more look to the steerage of it, because they will be carried
amain either to their port or wreck; so have they to be reason to be very
careful in the managery of this service, the issue whereof cannot be ordinary
because the duty is extraordinary. Now the counsel or direction to be given
must necessarily be divided into these three general heads. 1. Some preparatory direction before
the duty. 2. Something to be
observed in the performance of the duty.
3. Something after the despatch of it.
The
city cannot be safe unless the whole line be kept. It is all one whether the
enemy breaks in at the front flank or rear of an army; or whether the ship be
taken at sea, or sink in the haven when the voyage is over.
[What is needful before extraordinary prayer.]
1.
Requisite. Some preparatory
direction before the duty. Now
there is a double preparation requisite —the one more remote, the other
immediate; or, if you please, habitual preparation and actual.
(1.)
There is a remote and habitual preparation, of great use to the
performance of this solemn duty of extraordinary prayer. It lies in this, to look, Christian,
that thou showest a conscionable care in thy daily walking, and the constant
exercise of this duty in thy ordinary daily offices of devotion, or else thou
art like to make but bad work when thou comest to engage in the extraordinary.
(a)
Thy neglect in the ordinary duty will exceedingly indispose thee for
the extraordinary. Who would take
a foggy horse out of the pasture to run a race? In extraordinary prayer the soul is to be put on her full
speed, all her powers to strained to their utmost ability, and to continue long
in the work also. Is he fit for so swift and long a race, whose soul is not
kept in breath by the daily exercise of ordinary prayer, but lets his graces,
if he hath any, to be choked up with sloth or formality? The more any member is used, the
stronger it is. The right hand, which
is our working hand, hath more activity than the left, that is used less. A weakness will certainly invade the
powers of thy lazy soul, which, though thou perceivest not as thou sittest in
thy chair of sloth, will appear when thou risest, and thinkest to go forth in
any solemn duty, as thou wert wont to do; then thou wilt find, with Samson,
that thou hast lost thy strength in the lap of sloth and negligence. As fasting is too strong for new
bottles, so it is too sweet wine for to be put into fusty and mouldy ones. Now the only way to keep a bottle or
cask sweet, is to not let it stand long empty without any liquor in it.
(b)
As it will indispose thee for this solemn duty, so it is a bad symptom
concerning thy spiritual state itself, which is worse than the former. Grace works uniformly, and discovers a
comely proportion in its actings.
Haply you may see the son of a prince on some high day in richer and
more glorious apparel than on another day that is ordinary; but you shall never
find him in sordid, ragged, and beggarly clothes. Still he will be clad as
becomes a king's son. Possibly,
yea, it is likely, that you may see the Christian come forth, in an
extraordinary day and duty, with more enlargement of affections in prayer, and
all his graces raised to a higher glory in their actings, than ordinary, but
you shall never find him with his robe of grace laid aside. Still the true saint will declare his
high birth by his everyday course.
He will not live in the neglect of ordinary duties, and cast off
communion with God, in his daily walking.
O, it is the brand of a hypocrite to have his devotion come by fits,
and, like a drift of snow, to lie thick in one place and none in another; to
seem for zeal like angels at a time and live like atheists many weeks
after. Surely grace acts more
evenly and is never so unlike itself.
It is ill living in that miser's house who hath never any good meat on
his table but when he makes a feast, and that is very seldom; or with him that
upon an occasion hath a day of prayer, but starves himself and family, or
pinches them in their daily fare.
Well, never think of meddling with this extraordinary duty till thou
inurest thyself to the ordinary exercise of prayer, and takest more care in thy
daily walking with God.
(2.)
There is more close and immediate preparation required, and this I call
actual preparation. It is
true, indeed, he that is conscientious and careful in the ordinary exercises of
religion, hath a great advantage of him that either neglects them or is loose
in them, for his heart must needs stand in a nearer disposition to this
extraordinary service than the other—as he that is up and hath his clothes on,
is more ready to go on his master’s errand than he that is asleep in his bed. Yet, besides this care in our daily
walking, there needs some further pains to be taken with his heart to raise it
unto such a frame as may comport with this solemn service. The neat housewife, though she
endeavours to keep her house clean, yet, against some good time, as they call
it, she is more than ordinary curious in washing her rooms, and scouring her
vessels, that they might not only be clean but bright; and so should the
Christian. Now is the time for
thee to scour off the dust thou contractest in thy daily course, and to
brighten thy graces unto a further glory that appears in thy everyday walking,
to do which will cost pains and require time.
The
Christian is like some heavy birds, as the bustard and others, that cannot get
upon the wing without a run of a furlong or two; or a great bell that takes
some time to the raising of it.
Now, meditation is the great instrument thou art to use in this preparatory
work. Allow thyself some
considerable portion of time, before the day of extraordinary prayer, for thy
retirement, wherein thou mayest converse most privately with thy own
heart. This cannot be done in a
crowd, neither must it be left to the time of engaging in the extraordinary
duty. We cannot do both duties
together. The husbandman cannot
whet his scythe and cut grass at once.
Betake thyself therefore to thy closet, and in the first place call thy
thoughts off the world, and as much as is possible clear thy soul of all that
is foreign to the work thou art about; this is the wiping of the table‑book
before we can write anything well on it. Now the more effectually to gather in
thy heart to a holy seriousness, and compact thy thoughts together, it were
expedient for thee at first to lay before thee the grand importance of the
approaching service. Thou art
going to stand before the great God, and that very near in an extraordinary
duty, wherein thou wilt either sanctify or profane his reverend in a high
degree, and accordingly art to expect his love or wrath in some choice blessing
or dreadful curse, to be the issue and result of thy undertaking! Gird the loins of thy mind with some
such awful apprehensions as these.
As natural fear makes the spirits retire from the outward parts of the
body to the heart, so this holy fear of miscarrying in so solemn a duty would
be a means to call thy thoughts from all exterior carnal objects, and fix them
upon the duty in hand; 'In thy fear will I worship,’ Ps. 5:7. Such will the print on the wax be as
the sculpture is on the seal. If
the fear of God be deeply engraven on thy heart, there is no doubt but it will
make a suitable impression on the duty thou performest. Well, now the court is set and silence
commanded, a few particulars I shall propound for thy thoughts to go upon in
this preparatory work.
[Three preparatory directions.]
First. Examine thy soul, what end thou propoundest
to thyself in the intended service of extraordinary prayer. None but a child or a fool will run
before he knows what is his errand.
The end is that which a wise man looks to before he sets his hand to any
work, and the more weighty the enterprise is the more necessary this is.
1.
Consider, if the end thou propoundest be evil, the duty cannot be good,
because thy heart is not sincere in it.
The sincerity of the heart discovers itself in the mark it sets up and
end it aims at in a duty, not in the external performance of it. The thief and the honest traveller may
be found riding in the same road, but they have different aims therein, and
this distinguisheth them. Thus the
saint and hypocrite join in the same duty, shoot as it were the same bow, but
their eye takes not the same aim, and therefore the arrows meet not in the same
butt. The prayers of one are
rejected as abominable, and the other graciously accepted. Who more seemingly devout than the
captive Jews that kept up a fast for seventy years together? yet God gives them
but little thanks for their pains, because their end was not right: ‘When ye
fasted and mourned in the fifth and seventh month, even those seventy years,
did ye at all fast unto me, even to me?’ Zech. 7:5. The faster a man gallops, if he be out
of his way, it is the worse. Zeal is the best or worst thing in a duty. If the end be right, O it is excellent!
but if wrong, stark naught. And it
is no easy thing to propound a right end.
The eye must be set right in the head before it can look right. If the piece be wrong made it will
never carry the bullet straight to the mark. A false heart—and every carnal heart is such—cannot have a
true end.
2.
Consider that your endeavour in the duty will bear proportion, and be
commensurate, to the end you propound therein. If your end be low, your endeavour will be no more than to
reach that end; as he that intends to build a little cottage contents himself
with ordinary stuff, clay and thatch; but he that designs some stately palace
provides more precious materials.
Thus David was very curious in the materials he laid aside for the
temple: ‘For the palace,’ saith he, ‘is not for man, but for the Lord
God.’ Therefore he ‘prepared with
all his might gold and silver,’ &c., I Chr. 29:1-3. The hypocrite’s ends in a fast are low
and base—his credit with men, carnal profit, and the like. Accordingly, his endeavour is laid out
on the external duty—a demure countenance, devout posture, and such
expressions in prayer as may most take with those that hear him, and this is
all he looks at. But the gracious
soul saith with David, This palace I build, this duty I perform, ‘is not for
man, but for the Lord God,’ and therefore his chief care is to provide more
precious materials—a broken heart for sin in his confessions, faith and
fervency in his petitions, love and thankfulness in his acknowledgments of
mercies received.
Question. But when is an evil end propounded
in this duty?
Answer. The end we propound may be evil, either
intrinsically, when the thing we aim at is evil in its own nature, or else from
some irregularity in placing it too high or low in our aim.
(1.)
The ends that are intrinsically evil. To name two,
(a)
When a person or a people shall fast and pray to cover and more sleightily
carry on any wicked enterprise.
This is a horrid evil, a monstrous abomination. What is this but to hang out the sign
of an angel at the door, that they may play the devil within the less
suspected? Yet, such deep
hypocrisy hath the heart of man discovered, that it dare come and lay its
cockatrice egg under the very wing of God, and make use of this solemn
ordinance as an expedient to hatch their wicked designs. The fox, they say, when hard put to it,
will, to save himself, fall in among the dogs, and hunt among them as one of
their company. Thus the hypocrite,
the better to conceal his wicked projects, will run among the saints, and make
as loud a cry in this duty and others as the best of them all. It is the devil’s old trick, and he
hath learned it his instruments, to wrap up wicked plots in the gilded covers
of God’s ordinances. What plotting
and counterplotting was there between Shechem the son of Hamor and Simeon and
Levi? and the expedient both used to accomplish their designs was an ordinance
of God. The one hopes by
submitting to it to hook into his hands the whole estate of Jacob’s family
—‘shall not their substance be ours?’ and the other persuades them to it that
when they were sore they might butcher them without resistance. Absalom, that he might better play the
traitor against his father, begs leave to pay his vow at Hebron. Jezebel sets her trap for Naboth, and
that he may the more surely fall into her clutches, she croucheth and humbleth
herself even before God in a fast.
And the demure Pharisee, who bragged so much of his fasting, our Saviour
was bold to tell him it was to ‘devour the widows’ houses.’ But, as the father
hath it, manducant in terris quod apud inferos digerunt—they devour on
earth those morsels that will lie heavy on their stomachs in hell to be
digesting to eternity. Thus the
hypocrite, like antichrist, sits in the temple of God, and there commits his
execrable abominations, turning a house of prayer into a den of thieves. O tremble at this great
wickedness! It gives a crimson
tincture to a sin when it is committed under the disguise of religion.
(b)
When a person thinks by fasting and prayer to satisfy God for his sin, or
merit any favour at the hands of God.
This is wicked and abominable, and as contrary to the nature of prayer
as buying is to begging. ‘The
poor,’ saith Solomon, ‘useth entreaties,’ Prov. 18:23. ‘Whom, though I were righteous, yet would
I not answer, but I would make supplication to my judge,’ Job 9:15. We cannot have the benefit of the
throne of grace till we quit our legal plea. Christ indeed pleads as righteous,
and therefore desires what he asks for us as just, because he hath paid for it;
but we pray as sinners, and therefore crave all as mercy, yea, though we plead
Christ’s merit, because he is the greatest and freest gift of all other. Yet,
such is the pride of man's heart, that he had rather play the merchant, and
truck his duties for God’s blessings, than be thought to receive them
gratis. This was the temper of the
carnal Jews. They thought to
pacify God for their sin, as Jacob his angry brother, with the droves and
flocks of duties which they presented him with, and thought their services
undervalued when they were not accepted for good payment. Hence their bold expostulating the case
with the Lord, ‘Wherefore have we fasted, say they, and thou seest not?
wherefore have we afflicted our soul, and thou takest no knowledge?’ Isa. 58:3. Such a high opinion they had of
themselves. O take heed of this:
pride turns an ordinance into an idol.
God accepts our fasts and prayers when used for humiliation, but abhors
them when we bring them for our justification. The Pharisee lost himself by his proud brags how oft he
fasted, while the poor publican got the prize by a humble confession of his
sin, Luke
18. He that
thinks to wash his face with puddle water, instead of making it clean will
leave it fouler. Truly our best
tears are not over clean, and can they make us clean that need themselves to be
washed? Holy Job durst not rely on
his purity: ‘If I wash myself with snow water, and make my hands never so
clean, yet shalt thou plunge me in the ditch, and mine own clothes shall abhor
me. For he is not a man, as I am,
that I should answer him, and we should come together in judgment,’ Job 9:30-32.
(2.)
The end may be, though not intrinsically evil, yet evil from some
irregularity in misplacing it; as when we make that our ultimate end which
should only be our subordinate end in the duty. That which would be lawful standing in its proper place,
becomes sinful when the ultimate end is crowded down to make room for that. The glory of God is to be the ultimate
end, not only in every duty of worship, but in all our common actions also,
even to eating and drinking. Those
low actions are to be elevated to this high end, I Cor. 10:31. And good reason he should be our utmost
end from whom we received our beginning.
All things are of him, and therefore fit they should be to him. The river-water empties itself into the
bosom of the sea from whence it flows.
Now, if we are to have so high an end in our lowest actions, then surely
in our highest; and such are acts of worship, in which we have immediately to
do with God, and are thence called priests, ‘to offer up spiritual sacrifices,
acceptable to God by Jesus Christ,’ I Peter 2:5. There is indeed another end also for
which ordinances are appointed, viz. to conduit-pipes for conveying all kind of
blessings from God unto us; but this is an inferior end, and to be subordinated
to the former, or else we make the glory of God an underling to our particular
good, which God will not endure.
Possibly we are in some great affliction. This sets us to prayer for deliverance. Thus far we keep our way. But then we turn aside when our deliverance
is more regarded by us than his glory.
This is to set the subject in his prince’s chair; uti Deo ut fruamur
mundo—to make use of God that we may enjoy the creature. Beware of this. Whatever we prefer in our desires above
the glory of God is an idol-worship by us. The heart can engrave as well as the hand, and an idol in
the heart is as bad as one set up in the house.
Question. But how may I find whether the glory of
God, or the particular good thing I pray for, be that which I make my chief end
in duty?
Answer. It may be discovered two ways: (a)
By thy carriage in prayer. (b) By thy carriage after prayer.
(a)
By the carriage of thy heart in prayer. If the glory of God be chiefly aimed at by thee, this will
give a tincture to the whole duty, and be influential into every part of it;
thou wilt suit thy requests to this end. For, as there is a secret force from
the arm that draws the bow impressed on the arrow which carries it to the mark
aimed at by the shooter, so there is a secret power which carries the soul out
in duty to act suitably to the end he chiefly propounds and desires to obtain;
for no man would willingly obstruct and hinder what above all he wisheth
for. We will suppose pardon of sin
is the mercy thou prayest for. Now
if thou desirest sincerely the glory of God as well as this mercy, yea, above
it, this will direct thee in thy confession of sin to afflict thy soul more
for the dishonour thou hast by it reflected on God than the wrath thou hast
incurred thyself. So in thy
petition, thou darest not beg thy pardon on terms that were dishonourable for
God to give it on, but will desire the mercy in such a way as his glory may be
both secured and advanced. Now God
cannot pardon the sin of an impenitent wretch that holds still the love and
liking of his lust without infinite wrong to his glorious name. And therefore, if his glory be so high
in thy eye as thou sayest, thou wilt cry as earnestly for his sanctifying grace
as for pardoning mercy, and not merely because thou canst not have pardon
without it—as a sick man desires a bitter potion to save his life, not that he
loves it—but because by it thou shalt be fitted to glorify him.
(b)
It may be discovered by thy carriage after duty, and that in two
particulars: when the thing prayed for is obtained, and also when denied.
When
the mercy prayed for is obtained.
If thou didst chiefly aim at the glory of God in begging it, thy chief
care will be to lay it out for his glory now thou hast it; whereas he that
aimed at himself in praying for it, will as little regard God in the using of
it as he did in begging it. It is
natural for things to resolve into their principles. The child that Hannah obtained of God she dedicates unto
the Lord—and why? but because this was her end in praying for him, I Sam. 1:11 compared
with ver. 28.
When David’s prayer is heard, and he delivered, mark what his resolve
from this is, ‘I will walk before the Lord in the land of the living,’ Ps. 116:9. And again, ‘O Lord, truly I am thy
servant,...thou hast loosed my bonds,’ ver. 16. He returns the mercy to God by
improving it for him in a holy life. How can we think he aimed at the glory of
God in praying for health that runs away from God as soon as he is set upon his
legs? or, in praying for wealth, that lays it out upon his lusts?
Again,
when the thing prayed for is denied. He that aims sincerely at God’s glory in prayer for a mercy—I
speak now of such mercies as are but conditionally promised—he will cheerfully
submit to the will of God in a denial thereof, because God can in such
petitions glorify himself by denying as well as granting them. David prayed and fasted for the life of
his sick child. It dies
notwithstanding. Now, does this
denial make him fall out with God? is he clamorous and discontent? No, it raiseth no storm in his heart or
lowering weather in his countenance to hinder him in the service of God. He washeth his tears from his blubbered
cheeks, changes his apparel, and goes cheerfully into the house of God and
worshippeth, II
Sam. 12:20, so powerfully did the will of God determine
his will. Thus, as the heavenly
bodies are by the primum mobile carried contrary to their particular
inclination, so grace in a saint overrules his natural affection, and carries
him into a compliance with the will of God when it crosseth his own. Our blessed Saviour had natural
affections, which made him pray the bitter cup of his passion might, if possible,
pass from him; yet not so but he was willing to take a denial, and therefore
desires his Father to glorify himself, though it were by taking away his life, John 12:27, 28.
Second. The second thing thou art to do, having
fixed thy end right, is to make a private search into thy heart and life,
whereby thou mayest be enabled more fully and feelingly to lay open thy
condition before the Lord. Now
there are three heads of inquiry thou art to go upon: 1. For the sins thou hast
committed. 2. For the mercies thou
hast received. 3. For the wants
thou liest under.
[Three heads of
inquiry in searching
into our heart and
life.]
1.
For the sins thou hast committed.
The great business of a fast lies in the practice of repentance, and
this cannot be done without a narrow scrutiny of the heart: ‘Let us search and
try our ways, and turn again to the Lord,’ Lam. 3:40. The thief must be found before he can
be tried, and tried before he is condemned and executed. Some sins no doubt may be taken and
apprehended with little pains; but if thou beest true to God and thy own soul,
thou wouldst not willingly let any of the company escape. How canst thou expect pardon for any
that desirest not justice on all? and how canst thou say thou desirest justice
on those sins which thou endeavourest not to apprehend? That constable that having a hue and
cry brought him for a pack of thieves, and lets any get away rather than he
will rise to search for them, shows his zeal to justice is little. I do not say
thou wilt be able to find all. It
is enough if by thy diligence thou givest proof of thy sincerity that thou
wouldst not conceal any. Set
thyself, therefore, in good earnest to the work. Beset thy heart and life round, as men would do a wood where
murderers are lodged. Hunt back to
the several stages of thy life, youth, and riper years all the capacities and
relations thou hast stood in, thy calling general and particular—every place
where thou hast lived, and thy behaviour in them. Bid memory bring in its old records, and read over what
passages are there written. Call
conscience in to depose what it knows concerning thee, and encourage it to
speak freely without mincing the matter: and take heed thou dost not snib this
witness, as some corrupt judges use when they would favour a bad cause, or give
it secret instructions—as David did Joab—to deal gently with thee. Be willing to have thy condition opened
fully and all thy coverings turned up.
For many times foul designs are his with fair pretences, as the barrels
of powder in the parliament cellar under coals and billets. Now, when thou hast gone as far as thou
canst, begging Heaven’s help in the thing, to search and try thee whether there
be any further wickedness that thou hast not found out, then burden thy soul,
judge thyself for them with all the brokenness of heart thou canst get,
justifying God in the sentence denounced against thee for them. God will have thee lay thy neck on the
block, though he means not to give the stroke. In a word, labour in thy meditations to give every sin its
due accent, and suffer thy thoughts to dwell on them till thou findest the fire
of thy indignation kindle in thy heart against them, yea, flame forth into such
a holy zeal against them as makes thee put thyself under an oath to endeavour
their utter ruin and destruction.
Then thou art fit to beg thy own life when thou hast vowed the death of
thy sins.
2.
For the mercies thou hast received. Thou hast these—at least the most signal instances of them
—upon the file, unless thou beest a very bad husband for thy soul. If God thinks fit to bottle his saints’
tears, they should surely not forget to book his mercies. Now there are some special seasons
wherein the saint should take down this chronicle of God’s mercies to read in
it; and this is one, when he is to engage in this extraordinary duty.
(1.)
As the most effectual means to melt his heart for sin. Mercy gives the greatest aggravation to
sin, and therefore must needs be the most powerful instrument to break the
heart for sin. With this God doth
reproach sinning Israel, ‘Do ye thus requite the Lord, O foolish people and
unwise?’ Deut.
32:6. They could not have been evil to such a height if God
had not been so good to them. When
God would break the sore of his people's sin, he compounds a poultice with his
choicest mercies and lays this warm to their hearts. David had sat many months under the lectures of the law,
unhumbled for his bloody complicated sin; but Nathan is sent to preach a
rehearsal sermon to him of the many mercies that God had graced him with, and
while these coals are pouring on his head his heart dissolves presently, II Sam. 12. The frost seldom is quite out of the
earth till the sun hath got some power in the spring to dissolve its bands; but
then it sets it going. Neither
will the hardness of the heart be to any purpose removed until the soul be
thoroughly warmed with the sense of God’s mercies. ‘And there shall ye remember
your ways, and all your doings, wherein ye have been defiled; and ye shall
loathe yourselves in your own sight,’ Eze. 20:43. Where is that ‘there’ but amidst
the thoughts of his mercies, as by the context is manifest? A pardon from the prince hath made some
weep whom the sight of the block and axe could not move. Sight of wrath inflames the conscience,
but sense of mercy kindly melts the heart and overcomes the will.
(2.)
As a necessary ingredient in all our prayers. ‘With thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto
God,’ Php.
4:6. This spice
must be in all our offerings. He
that prays for mercy he wants, and is not thankful for mercies received, may
seem mindful of himself, but he is forgetful of God, and so takes the right
course to shut his prayers out of doors.
God will not put his mercies into a rent purse, and such is an
unthankful heart, for it drops them soon out of his memory.
3.
For the wants thou liest under.
Before the tradesman goes to the fair he looks over his shop that he may
know what commodity he most lacks.
Thou goest to this duty to furnish thyself with the graces and mercies
thou needest, is it not necessary then to see what thy present store is? what
thy personal and what thy relational needs are?—not forgetting the public, in
whose peace and happiness thou art so much concerned; for, if this ship sink,
thou canst not be safe in thy private cabin. To leave all these to occur and overtake thee, without
charging thy thoughts with them by previous meditation, is too high a presumption
for a sober Christian to take up.
Besides, thy affections need help as well as thy memory. Nay, we may
sooner bring our sins and wants to mind than lay them to heart. It is easier to know them, than knowing
them to be deeply affected with them: and we do not come in prayer to tell God
a bare story of these things, but feelingly and affectionately to make our moan
and complaint with deep sighs and groans to him that can pardon the one and
relieve us in the other.
Third. When thou hast upon this scrutiny kindled
thy affections with the bellows of meditation into a deep sense of these
things, then furnish thyself with arguments from the promises to enforce thy
prayers and make them prevalent with God. The promises are the ground of faith, and faith when
strengthened will make thee fervent, and such and such fervency ever speeds and
returns with victory out of the field of prayer. ‘The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth
much,’ James
5:16. Words in
prayer are but as powder; the promise is the bullet that doth the execution,
faith the grace that chargeth the soul with it, and fervency that gives fire,
and dischargeth it into God's bosom with such a force that the Almighty cannot
deny it entrance, because indeed he will not. Now, as he is an impudent soldier
that leaves his bullets to be cast or fitted to the bore of his piece till he
comes into the field; so he an unwise Christian that doth not provide and sort
promises suitable to his condition and request before he engageth in so solemn
a service. Daniel first searcheth
out the promise—what God had engaged himself to do for his people, as also when
the date of this promise expired; and when by meditation and study upon it he
had raised his heart to a firm belief thereof, then he sets upon God with a
holy violence in prayer, and presseth him close, not only as a merciful God,
but righteous also, to remember them now the bond of his promise was coming
out: ‘O Lord, according to all thy righteousness, I beseech thee, let thine
anger and thy fury be turned away from thy city Jerusalem,’ &c., Dan. 9:16. The mightier any is in the word, the
more mighty he will be in prayer.
Having despatched the preparatory directions, I now come to those that
are to be observed in the duty itself.
[What is needful in extraordinary prayer.]
2.
Requisite. That necessary
to be observed in the performance of the duty of extraordinary prayer.
Because those directions will serve here which are given in another place for
the duty of prayer in general, I shall name but a few, and those briefly.
(1.)
When the time to engage thyself in this extraordinary duty is come, beware
thou settest not upon it in the confidence of thy preparation, whatever thy
care success therein hath been.
What a worthy doctor directed ministers {to do} as to their preaching,
is applicable to Christians as to their praying—he bade them study for their
sermons as if they expected no divine assistance in the pulpit, and when they
came in the pulpit to cast themselves upon divine assistance as if they had not
studied at all. Thus prepare
before thou comest to fast and pray, as if thou wert to meet with no further
assistance in the duty; but when thou comest to the performance of the duty,
cast thyself wholly upon divine assistance as if thou hadst not at all
prepared. I know not which of the
two doth worst, he that presumes upon God’s assistance in this great work
without preparation, or he that presumes on his preparation, and relies not
after he hath done his best endeavour on the gracious assistance of God. The first shows he hath but mean
thoughts of this solemn ordinance, yea, low and unworthy thoughts of the great
God with whom he hath to do in it; and the other too high thoughts of himself.
What
though now, Christian, thou marchest in goodly array and thy heart in order;
how soon, alas! may all that preparation be routed, and thy chariot-wheels,
which thou hast taken so much pains to oil, be set fast or knocked off! Now thy thoughts are united, thou
thinkest; dost thou know where they will be a few minutes hence, if thy God
help thee not to keep them together?
Thou canst as easily hold the four winds in a bag, as keep the thoughts
of thy fluid mind from gadding.
Now thy affections are wound up to some height, but canst thou hold the
pegs from slipping? Cannot God
wither thy hand while thou stretchest it out in prayer; make thy tongue falter
when thou wouldst make use of it; yea, suffer a sudden damp to fall on thy
spirit that shall chill all thy affections and leave thy heart as cold as a
stone in thy bosom? ‘Surely man at his best estate is vanity.’ And this in regard of the temper of his
spirit as well as in the constitution of his body and other {of} his worldly
advantages. How oft do we see the
gifts of his mind and the vivacity of his graces fade and wither in one duty,
which at another, when the Spirit of God vouchsafed his gentle breath to
quicken them, did flourish and send forth their fragrant spices in
abundance! O do not then applaud
thyself in thy gourd, which may so soon be smitten, neither commit so great an
adventure as the success of this duty is in the leaking bottom of thy own
preparation.
(2.)
Pray often rather than very long at a time. It is hard to be very long in prayer and not slacken in our
affections. Those watches which are made to go longer than ordinary at one
winding do commonly lose towards the end.
The flesh is weak; and if the spirits of the body tire, the soul that
rideth on this beast must needs be cast behind. Our Saviour, when he prayed for his life, we find him
praying rather often than long at once.
He who, in a long journey, lights often to let his beast take breath,
and then mounts upon him again, will get to his journey’s end may be sooner
than he that puts him beyond his strength. Especially observe this in social prayers. For, when we pray
in company we must consider them that travail with us in the duty; as Jacob
said, ‘I will lead on softly,...as the children are able to endure.’ Yet I speak not this that you should
give any check to the Spirit of God in his assistances, which sometime come so
strong that the Christian is, as it were, carried with a full fore‑wind, and
hath the labour of tugging at the oar saved him. The ship of the soul goes with most facility when with most
speed. Such assistances lift both
the person praying and those that join with him—if gracious, and under the same
quickenings—in a manner above all weariness. The Spirit brings
spirits—affections, I mean—with him. Such a soul is like a vessel that runs
full and fresh—what pours from him is quick and spiritful; whereas at another
time, when the Spirit of God denies these assistances, his prayer tastes flat
to his own palate, if not to others’.
(3.)
Be very careful to approve thyself faithful in the soul-humbling work of the
day. Let thy confessions be
free and full, the sense thou hast of thy sins be deep, and thy sorrow for them
be sincere and evangelical, for as thou quittest thyself in this, so thou wilt
be in all the other parts of the duty.
If thou confessest thy sin feelingly, thou wilt pray against it
fervently. If thy sorrow be deep
and reach to thy very heart and spirit, then thy petitions for pardoning mercy
and purging grace will also come from the heart, be cordial, warm, and vehement. Whereas he that melts not in confession
of sin will freeze in his prayers that he puts up against it; if his tears be
false and whorish—lachrymæ mentiri doctæ, his desires cannot be
true. Why do men ask in their
petitions that grace which they do not in their hearts desire, but because they
do not feel the smart, and are not loathed with the evil, of their sins that
they confess? thus many confess their sins as beggars sometimes show their
sores, which they are not willing to have cured. Again, as thou art in thy confession of sin, so thou wilt be
in thy acknowledgments of mercy.
The lower thou fallest in the abasement of thyself for thy sins, the
higher thou wilt mount in thy praises for his mercies. The rebound of the ball is suitable to
the force with which it is thrown down.
The deeper the base is in confession, the shriller will the treble of
thy praises be, for these mutually aggravate one another. the greater our
mercies are, the greater are our sins; and the greater our sins, the greater
are the mercies which, notwithstanding them, our good God vouchsafeth to
us. So that the sense we have of
one must needs be in proportion to the other; as we are afflicted for sin so
will we be affected with mercy.
(4.)
Improve the intervals of prayer with seasonable and suitable meditations,
that thou mayest be fitted to return to the work with more life and vigour.
Meditation is prayer’s handmaid to wait on it both before and after the
performance. It is as the plough
before the sower, to prepare the heart for the duty of prayer, and the harrow
to cover the seed when it is sown.
As the hopper feeds the mill with grist, so doth meditation the heart
with matter for prayer. Now, if it
be necessary that thou shouldst consider before duty what thou art to pray,
then surely after duty to make reflection on thyself how thou didst pray. The mill may go and yet no corn be
ground. Thus thou mayest confess
many sins, and yet thy heart be broken and ground with sorrow for none of them
all. Thou mayest pray for many graces, and exercise little or no grace in thy
praying for them—thy heart being lazy, and putting no weight to the
work—without which these spices are not broken, and so send not forth their
sweet savour. Look therefore back
upon the past duty, and observe narrowly what the behaviour of thy heart was
in it. If thou findest it to have
been lazy, and drew loose in its gears, or played the truant by gadding from
the work with impertinent thoughts—in a word, if under the power of any sinful
distemper, be sure at thy return to the duty of prayer that thou chargest this
home upon thyself with shame and sorrow.
This is the only way to stay God’s hand and stop him from commencing a
suit against thee: ‘If we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged,’ I Cor. 11:31. Ubi desinit justitia incipit judicium—where
justice takes end judgment begins.
If we do not justice on ourselves, then God will right himself as well
as he can. Indeed thou canst not
in faith pray for pardon of these sins till thou hast shown thyself on God's
side by entering thy protest against them. Moses took the right method—he expressed his zeal first for
God against Israel’s sin of the golden calf, and then fell hard to the work of
prayer to God for the pardon of it.
He durst not open his lips for them to God till he had vented his zeal
for God, Ex.
32:26 compared with ver. 30, 31. And if he took this course when to intercede for others,
much more then shouldst thou when to pray for the pardon of thy own sin.
Again,
if upon this review of thy prayer thou findest thy heart was warm in the work,
that thy affections flowed out to God, and his reciprocated loves again by
unbosoming himself to thee, take heed that no secret pride robs thee of thy new
got treasure; be humble and thankful, remembering they were not thy own wings
on which thou wert carried. And
also, be careful to improve these divine favours given to encourage thee in
the work, as the handfuls of ears of corn let fall for Ruth in the field of
Boaz. God would not that they
should stop thy mouth, but open it wider when thou comest again to pray. Did thy heart begin to melt in thy
bosom? O now cry for more brokenness
of heart. Did thy God cast a kind
look on thee? let it set thee a longing for fuller discoveries of his
love. When the beggar sees the
rich man putting his hand to his purse he cries more earnestly. God is now on the giving hand, and this
should embolden thee to ask; as Abraham, who, as God yielded, made his
approaches closer, improving the ground which he got by inches for a further
advantage to gain more, Gen.
18:27.
[What is needful after extraordinary prayer.]
3.
Requisite. That which is necessary
after extraordinary prayer.
The third word of direction is to the Christian, how he should carry
himself when the day for extraordinary prayer is over, and this lies in a holy
watch that he is to set upon himself.
He that prays and watcheth not, is like him that sows a field with
precious seed, but leaves the gate open for hogs to come and root it up; or him
that takes great pains to get money, but no care to lay it up safely when he
hath it. If Satan cannot beat thee
in the field, yet he hopes to have thee at an advantage when thou hast
disbanded thy forces, the duty be past, and thou liest in a careless
posture. Esau promised himself an
opportunity of avenging himself on Jacob: ‘The days of mourning,’ saith he,
‘for my father are at hand; then will I slay him,’ Gen. 27:41. Thus saith Satan: The days of mourning
and fasting will soon be over; he will not be always upon his knees praying,
not always beating down his body with fasting, and then I will fall upon
him. Now one of these two ways thy
danger is like to come upon thee—either by his wounding thy faith or slackening
thy care in thy obediential walking; and if he can do either, he will give a
sad blow to thy prayers.
(1.)
Look therefore after such a day to thy faith. To pray and not to act
faith, is to shoot and not look where the arrow lights; to send a ship with
merchandise to sea and look for no return by the voyage. Thou hast in prayer
laboured to overcome God to hear and help thee; now take as much pains to
overcome thy heart into a quiet waiting on God and entire confidence in
him. When Jehoshaphat had ended
his public fast, he stands up the next day and speaks these words to his people
that had joined with him in that solemn duty, ‘Hear me, O Judah, and ye
inhabitants of Jerusalem; Believe in the Lord your God, so shall ye be
established; believe his prophets, so shall ye prosper,’ II Chr. 20:20. So when our blessed Saviour had taught
his disciples to pray, then he presseth them entirely to commit themselves and
their affairs to that God to whom they prayed, Matt. 6:19-34.
Truly else extraordinary prayer is but extraordinary prattle; we mock God, and
our prayers will mock us, for no fruit will come of them. The hunter may want his supper, though
his dog runs fast and mouths it well, if, when he comes at the prey, he dares
not fasten upon it. Now it is
faith's office to fasten on the promise and take hold of God, without which thy
loud cry in prayer is bootless and fruitless. O canst thou trust thy cause with the lawyer, after thy
opening it to him; and put thy life into the physician's hand by following his
prescriptions, when thou hast acquainted him with thy disease; and darest not
thou venture thy stake in God's hand, after thou hast poured thy soul forth to
him in prayer! This is a great
folly. Why shouldst thou think omnipotency cannot help, or truth and
faithfulness will not? Yea, a
grievous sin to bring the name of the great God into question by thy
unbelief. Yet this our Saviour
complains sadly to be the usage God meets with at their hands from whom he
might expect better. ‘Shall not
God avenge his own elect which cry day and night to him, though he bear long
with them? I tell you that he will
avenge them speedily.’ What
greater security can the heart of a saint desire more than the word of a
faithful God? yet few to be found after all their praying for deliverance that
can entirely wait for the same. ‘Nevertheless when the Son of man cometh, shall
he find faith on the earth?’ Luke 18:8.
(2.)
Look after a day of extraordinary prayer to thy obediential walking. Solomon’s advice is, to ‘keep thy foot
when thou goest to the house of God,’ Ecc. 5:1. Mine at present is, to look to thy foot
as thou comest from it. Thou
mayest do thyself more mischief than all the devils in hell can do thee. They cannot intercept thy prayers and
hinder the happy return of them into thy bosom, but thou mayest soon do it:
‘Behold, the Lord's hand is not shortened, that it cannot save; neither his ear
heavy, that it cannot hear: but your iniquities have separated between you and
your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear,’ Isa. 59:1, 2. This is the whisperer that separateth
chief friends; that makes God, our best friend, stand aloof from his people and
their prayers. Be as careful,
Christian, after a fast, as a man would be after strong physic. A cold caught now—a little disorder in
thy walking—may be of sad consequence.
Remember that as thou hast left thy prayers, so thy vows, with the Lord.
As thou lookest God should answer the one, so he expects thou shouldst pay the
other. Break thy promise to him
and thou dischargest God with thy own hand of any mercy he owes thee. It is folly to think thou canst bind
God and leave thyself free.—We have despatched then the first branch of the
distinction of the kinds of prayer, which held forth the diversos modos
orandi—diverse manners of praying; from which hath been shown, that we are
to pray with all manner of prayer, ejaculatory and composed, solitary
and social, private and public, ordinary and extraordinary;
and we now go on to the second.
BRANCH
SECOND.
[‘All prayer’ viewed
as to
diversity in matter.]
Passing
from what we have said of diverse manner in prayer, we are now to consider the
diversam materiam orationis—the diverse matter of prayer. And thus, to
pray with all prayer and supplication, is to encircle the whole matter of
prayer within the compass of our duties, and not to leave anything out of our
prayers which God would have taken in.
Now this diversity of prayer’s matter, some think they find in the two
words of the text, BDTF,LP¬ and *,ZF4H;
but I shall not ground my discourse on so nice a criticism. We will content ourselves with the
division which the same apostle makes: ‘In every thing by prayer and
supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God,’ Php. 4:6;
and, ‘Pray without ceasing. In
every thing give thanks,’ I
Thes. 5:17, 18.
In both which places the whole matter of prayer is comprehended in
these two: First. Request or
petitionary prayer. Second. Thanksgiving. These two are like
the double motion of the lungs, by which they suck in and breathe out the air
again. In the petitionary part of
prayer we desire something at God's hands; in thanksgiving we return praise to
him for mercies received from him. I begin with the petitionary part of prayer.
[The petitionary part of prayer.]
First. The first of the twofold division of the whole matter of prayer, viz.