272Letter V.—Profit to be gained by Patient Endurance.
You have reason to bless God, my dear Sister, for
having preserved in your heart peace, gentleness, and charity for the
person whose place it is to wait upon you. He has given you a great
grace. Perhaps He may still allow that, either through ignorance,
thoughtlessness, or even, if you will, out of caprice, or bad temper,
she may give you occasion to practise patience. Then, Sister, try to
profit well by these precious occasions which are so adapted to gain the
heart of God. Alas! we offend this God of all goodness not only through
ignorance and thoughtlessness, but deliberately and maliciously. We want
Him to forgive us, and this He most mercifully does, and then we will
not forgive others like ourselves. And we recite every day the prayer
our Lord taught us, “Forgive us, Lord, as we forgive.”
We must remember also the words of our God, telling us that He would
act towards us as we act towards our neighbour; therefore we ought
to bear with our neighbour, and to show him consideration, charity,
gentleness and condescension; and God Who is faithful to His promises
will treat us in like manner. I am enlarging on this subject a little
because it will give you occasion to practise the greatest and most solid
virtue every day; charity, patience, meekness, and humility of heart,
benignity and the renunciation of your own ideas; and these little
daily virtues faithfully practised will procure you a rich harvest of
graces and merits for eternity. It is in this way better than in any
other that you will be able to obtain the great gift of interior prayer,
peace of mind, recollection, the continual presence of God, and His pure
and perfect love. This simple cross borne patiently will draw down upon
you an infinitude of graces, and will enable you more efficaciously to
become detached from self than trials, in appearance much more grievous,
and to attach yourself unreservedly to God.